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I Hope You Find Love!

Taylirious

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I was thinking I won't worry about a relationship until I am ready but I want love in my life, I want that special person. I don't think I have ever been ready and I feel I still need to grow before I can welcome my perfect love into my life but I keep hoping and I hope those who don't have someone find them and those that have someone continue to be blessed. :adore:
 
I no longer have expectations. That's not to be confused with standards, because I have those, but I have stopped expecting my special someone to look or act a certain way, because the thing about love is how unexpectedly it can happen. Sometimes it takes years, and sometimes, inside of a single day, you can meet and fall in love. It happens. I'm a firm believer in love at first sight.
 
I'd like to think I am giving love instead of being bitter and feeling like no one loves me...like a few months ago. I think love is a miracle & an easy blessing. :)
 
I'd like to think I am giving love instead of being bitter and feeling like no one loves me...like a few months ago. I think love is a miracle & an easy blessing. :)
We all need love in some way. For some people, fraternal love is more than enough, and for others, romantic love is the proper medicine for a lonely heart. Whatever it is you need, I hope you find it.
 
For me, love has always been unrequited. I'm dealing with it now, even. I'm deeply in love with someone who I know does not return these feelings. What's worse, I have to see this person frequently. I call her a friend, and act like everything is all right, when in truth I'm being torn apart inside.
 
For me, love has always been unrequited. I'm dealing with it now, even. I'm deeply in love with someone who I know does not return these feelings. What's worse, I have to see this person frequently. I call her a friend, and act like everything is all right, when in truth I'm being torn apart inside.

Been there. If I could go back I would just be her friend and enjoy our time together. :bolian:
 
I'm fortunate to have plenty of love from family and friends. What I don't have is romantic love. I've gotten quite accustomed to not being in a relationship for most of my adult life. I'm either too shy or too afraid, or I just don't care.
 
I'm fortunate to have plenty of love from family and friends. What I don't have is romantic love. I've gotten quite accustomed to not being in a relationship for most of my adult life. I'm either too shy or too afraid, or I just don't care.

I hope you overcome your fear and your perfect love finds you! :bolian:
 
I've been pretty lucky in life when it comes to love. Been married to a wonderful woman for, going on, 23 years. Three great kids, two of which are grown.
 
I'm fortunate to have plenty of love from family and friends. What I don't have is romantic love. I've gotten quite accustomed to not being in a relationship for most of my adult life. I'm either too shy or too afraid, or I just don't care.

I hope you overcome your fear and your perfect love finds you! :bolian:

I appreciate the thought, but at this point in my life, I don't know if I even want to. It's not that I'm incapable of falling in love, expressing love, or being loved. I was in a relationship when I was younger, and even then I was a late bloomer and didn't date until I was in my late teens. But ever since, I've had a long dry spell, 20 years and counting. :lol: I'll chalk it up to my own anxieties and lack of self-confidence.

I would love to live in a mansion, but it doesn't mean it's going to happen. The bottom line is, I'm totally okay with it.
 
For me, she's been and gone. Irreconcilable differences sounds kind of ugly, but it was far from that. She was the best thing that ever happened to me and she still makes me happy and informs my art.

I was thinking I won't worry about a relationship until I am ready but I want love in my life, I want that special person. I don't think I have ever been ready and I feel I still need to grow before I can welcome my perfect love into my life but I keep hoping and I hope those who don't have someone find them and those that have someone continue to be blessed. :adore:
If everybody waited until they were ready to do something, nothing would ever get done. ;)

I'm a firm believer in love at first sight.
And I'm proof that you're right. :)
 
Oh come on Chem, he's trying to be positive and social, cut him some slack. It's fine if you don't want a relationship or love, I just wouldn't have bothered posting in a thread like this if I felt that way.
 
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