I've always thought it takes an awful lot of effort to inject such unpleasantry into something as wonderful as gift-giving. 


I've always thought it takes an awful lot of effort to inject such unpleasantry into something as wonderful as gift-giving.![]()

Maybe! I love Secret Santa, and was excited about doing it at work for the first time. I was a bit surprised when I found out the price range would be $20-$25 (at the very least it drove home the fact that I've been here only 8 months and am still on a newbie's salary, because that's a lot for me!). But on the plus side, I got someone I really like, and I'll get a $25 gift myself!I think Christmas lists, by their very nature, miss the point of Christmas They make the holiday about "getting" rather than "giving."
"What do you want for Christmas?" is one of my least favorite questions.
Same here, but people are insistent, which is why I have a list. It's all stuff I'd eventually get for myself anyway, and I end up getting those people gifts, too, so the end result isn't much of a difference.
I've always thought it takes an awful lot of effort to inject such unpleasantry into something as wonderful as gift-giving.![]()
^Awesome! That sounds like fun, and a great way to spread the Christmas spirit.

Booyah!A close friend unexpectedly offered me a very generous Christmas gift, and I just selected exactly which Coach handbag I want. Wow!
I'd been thinking more like Downton Abbey Season 3, or this Data flash drive.
), a few audiobooks and cactus seeds.

But I can't afford it and wouldn't expect anyone to buy one for me. 
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