Exactly.
Why, if you don't believe Riker could get away with it, would you ever Raffi could get away with it?
What's even odder, is the chorus of voices on this forum that are not only defending this writing decision, but attacking those who point out the absurdity.
It all goes back to the "10/10, shut up troll" mentality that has become pervasive in greater nerd culture. If anything is attached to your favorite property, we no longer use the scale of 1 - 10; we use 10 - 11.
The most boring, pedantic drivel you can find on TV will be given a "10/10" by fanboys as long as it features the character(s) they are invested in emotionally; and anybody who offers any form of criticism will be designated as a "troll" or "bot" to invalidate said criticism.
I like Picard so far. I think it has potential and that the second half is set up to be very good. That being said, the show has flaws. Many of those flaws are in the writing, and pointing that out does not make you the devil.
Everything you like is not a 10/10, and everything you dislike is not a 0/10. Just stop it.