That's actually quite a lovely post Samuel T. Cogley. thx for sharing. and you're right, emotion is pretty much involved. It is the case with me. I grew up with star trek and it opened the door for me to the world of science fiction. I enjoy Sf thouroughly, share it with my friends, read about it, it cheers me up when I'm down, brings me to fun forums and allows me to read interesting posts

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I'm also gay and star trek seems to have a "they don't exist in the perfect future"-attitude. Which I find quite hurtfull, since the show I love reflects a sad truth. some people don't want us to exist. that we have no place in the future. And this in the show which is supposed to be about equality, hope, the human adventure, the future as we want it to be, being better then ourselves, morals,...
People often complain that there is another "gay character thread". The thing is, I don't want to see these threads anymore either. I just wish they could confirm once and for all that homosexuality exists in the star trek universe. Whoopi Goldberg got hope out of seeing uhura playing. Many GLBT persons look for people to look up to, to relate to, to imagine travelling along with tem in the stars to say it kinda mellow

. However we (sounds so getto when I say we) are not felt welcome, or we get lines like "maybe we cured it". Which I find personally a disgusting thing to say. I am not sick, I have no disease, I'm firing on all cilinders, to say cure is to say there is something wrong with us.
I'm not quite sure I can decently explain my point. I try but it's not always easy (dutch english transations can be hard

). For me homosexuality is as normal as it gets. I consider myself normal, I do no feel myself different from anybody else, and do not like being felt different or excluded.
A lot of people always say, you can't have a gay character in the movie just for him being there. I always found that an odd defense, cause to me it suggests distinction. There are a lot of straight characters in all the star treks who are just there. And I just want to see a gay character who is just there.
Let's say you got the promenade on DS9, a lot of people walking around. Some straight, some gay. But the gay ones can't be in there cause they don't have a storyline purpose or enough development? that's distinction.
I don't see distinction between straight and gay, but in star trek there is distinction. Straight characters can JUST be shown, but gay characters can't just be shown.
It's kinda like that south park episode where they had a racially discriminating flag of white people hanging a black man, whereas the children saw people hanging another person without distinction.
If they were to put a gay character in star trek (or some form of acknowledgement and not the bogus straight persons in a womens body kiss from jadzia) some would see THE gay person. Whereas others would see a person who happens to be gay. It is the latter I want.
I hope I'm making any sense here.
Also I'd like to apologize to PKtrekgirl if I may have insulted her. I meant no disrespect. As I mentioned earlier, it is an emotional issue for me and I can get pretty riled up about it, and some people on this forum just keep pissing me off (with their homophobic bullcrap and the 'they cured it shit'), and I didn't quite got to which side of the argument you belonged. I got defensive about it. In any case, I meant no disrespect
Btw I can highly recommend the starfleet academy comic book series from marvel. It has jewish and gay characters

and has very good stories to boot!