Many people who advocate just obedience to the state would argue that without law, people would be running around looting and raping all the time.
As I said, I'm not advocating blind obedience to the state. I argue for a strong, protective,
democratic government.
But human nature would generally support the second part of your statement. People, in their most basic nature, are nasty, brutal, vicious animals. (How else do you explain what just happened in Dallas? Or Orlando? Or the dozen or so OTHER mass shootings that have happened within the last year?)
The only thing that can be trusted to protect people from other people is a strong central government which maintains a clearly defined set of laws, and enforces penalties for breaking same. Because without that, what's going to stop them?
The majority of people, in a situation where their basic survival needs are met, are not violent people.
I disagree. People will be violent unless they are stopped from being violent. I mean, think of the last time that you were really angry with someone - so angry that you wanted to hurt or even kill them. What stopped you?
I'm sure there are some people who are intrinsically "nice" and who would never hurt anyone even if they had the complete freedom to do so. But the problem is, not everyone is like that. Some people are just evil - they would hurt anyone they felt like, if given the freedom to do so. And who protects us from people like that?
You can't expect everyone to bear the sole responsibility for protecting themselves, because that's what turns our homes into armed camps ruled by paranoia. And some people just don't have the
ability to function independently - we're not all survivalists who can live off the land without help from anyone. Who protects those who can't protect themselves?
When you have order without liberty, you can walk down the street without having to worry about getting attacked by criminals, but you basically end up being a slave to the state, living in fear of prosecution. So the authorities become the people you fear instead of criminals. The difference is, you have a chance to defend yourself against criminals.
But that's the thing.
I am not arguing for order without liberty. I argue that it is only a strong central democratic government that can enforce those things. Because without a government to maintain order, there can be no liberty, because the tyranny of chaos - of the mob, of anarchy - is not liberty. It's fear, nothing more.
Only a government can ensure
justice for all. Only a government can secure
rights for the people. I'm not saying governments ALWAYS do this - sometimes our most basic democratic institutions fail us, or don't always work as expected. But the way you fix that is to engage in the democratic process from WITHIN the system, you don't DESTROY the system.
You mentioned people banding together into communities which protect their own? That is exactly what a government is. Or at least, what it should be.