I'm sorry if my avatar is offensive to your girlfriend who once again you've brought up...my avatar taken in that context is indeed objectifying women if you wanna be technical but then again there are probably hundreds of posters who have similar pics of women they admire. No doubt same with the female posters of this BBS. My point in bringing up if you had a woman in your life was obvious and for some reason you are choosing to attack me by tossing it back into my face. I'm glad your girlfriend doesn't find the use of this word offensive. That wasn't my point, the point I was attempting to make...I guess in error that there must be someone who would in your life. I will acknowledge that perhaps I overblew my original intent with my post. At least though I attempted to analyze OmahaStar's post in why he chose use that phrasing concerning Rose. Josan you just keep on posting about my dislike of the word.
Once again, you fail. You made it personal by speculating that because I used the S-word in reference to one women, and a fictional character at that, that I must not have a woman in my life. So, since you crossed that line, yes, I'm going to call you on it. In direct response to you posting your speculations about my personal life, I replied.
As for my bringing her up a second time, that was to do what you think you're doing: Illustrating a point. The difference is I succeeded where you failed. And do you really think she cares about what avatar you, or anyone, uses on a message board. Her comments, and my mention of them, was to further illustrate a point:
Anyone, at any time, can be offended by anything.
So, one last and final time, for the record:
My posting my opinion of one fictional female character does not give you the right to post your speculations about my personal life or relationships.
Calling one individual the S-word, the application of which is subjective, does not a misogynist make. I know people that think that anyone who engages in pre-marital sex is a... what's the word I'm looking for???
Forums have language filters and if the S-word is so offensive to so many, then add it to the filter. But these forums don't so it's assumed that the majority have the maturity to handle the occasional use of certain words.
And lastly, I do find the Sleep With, Be Friends With or Chuck of a Cliff thread to be far more offensive than the term "slut". It's a thread that, if you want to argue it that way, objectifies people as sex objects and (jokingly or not) calls for the murder of others. But I'm not actually complaining about it. I'm only bringing it up to illustrate a point. I know it's in jest and (hopefully) the people posting in it don't actually intend to go out and start tossing people off cliffs.
Thank you for calling. Have a nice day.
Now, let's just hope we never see Rose Tyler again.
Oh crap. That's probably going to offend Rose Tyler fans.
You just can't win...
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