One of my favorite scenes in all of Trek is the Spock/Sarek exchange in TVH. Both of them are trying their best to hide their emotions, but it's pretty darn clear that there's a lot of emotion bubbling under that they're both trying to navigate, Sarek in particular. And it's also clear that he's pretty proud of his son and glad to have him back in the world of the living.
I agree, and I have always enjoyed Spock's last words to his father to tell his mother, "He feels fine." It feels so appropriate in their exchange.
) he falls for a woman later whose job and passion is studying alien languages and cultures to create a bridge between them, and who can accept him being someone in the middle of two worlds. I get the sense that when Uhura comforts him, she on one hand knows that his human side needs comfort and affection, and in fact he accepts that, but at the same time she asks him what he needs and accepts his 'vulcan' reply and his own other ways to deal with his grief. It must not be always easy for her to meet him in the middle and for her to understand when he needs to be human and when he needs to be vulcan, but I love she treats him as a person who has his own personality and he is not an "alien" (whose concept in that reality is quite relative as the humans themselves are aliens)