That was totally unethical of Bashir, and the writers play with it by having Miles try to argue with him about it, with Julian convinced he knows what he's doing. It was perhaps the most damaging thing ever done to the character, and may be a reason DS9 is my least favorite of the series.
Yes, it was, but there is something boyish and innocent about Bashir that makes it somehow acceptable. He's totally without malice.
Except he's a genetically altered human to make him a supergenius (another writers' betrayal of the character). When even average dolts like ourselves know he's violating medical ethics, why can't he see it?
She was his pet project and then she was a woman and he was already in love with his pet project as geniuses often are and it got messy. But to give DS9 credit he was told this was messy and inappropriate by his best friend.
Though it is a smear on his character I think it's a realistic one.
See none of that has to do with his terrible choices. You can be a massive genius and be socially and relationship-ly stunted. You can be a massive genius and be a predator. He gets sucked in by the Jack Pack and his neediness to be around people with that hyper thinking is apparent. I think it ties in very well with the foible ridden Bashir we see before his genetic tinkering is revealed. It must be hard to be so very very smart and so deeply insecure in social areas. His "frontier medicine" comment made me think he's lived the life of an ultra private school boy.It would have been perhaps more believable in earlier seasons, but once that genetic alteration business came into play, he can't be forgiven for it.