ST-One
Vice Admiral
I was staying out of this thread because I won't go see it, but in reading it, I see I gotta step in anyway.
I don't recall seeing anything in the series indicating that Kirk had a father around while growing up in prime. The lack of a father in Abramsverse shouldn't account for anything, unless they put stuff back in another cut that shows he wasn't raised by his ma (then again, there's nothing about her existing in TOS either, just his brother.)
Are you saying that, because they weren't mentioned thus far, they cannot be mentioned now?
And if you want to take the view that this movie legitimizes using Novel elements ... well, that opens things up all over again, since there are past novel elements that were supposed to be legit (like GR TMP novelization) that some folks are now saying non-legit (I'm using this word because I'm tired of seeing canon used like it was a cannon.)
The novels and TAS were always open as a resource for anything to be shown in on-screen-Trek.
Also, the no-daddy thing shouldn't matter if Kirk has got a Campbell-oops- a destiny to fulfill, since he would always be making captain regardless, right?
Takes the fun out of life, and the drama out of storytelling to go that route though.
Kirk doesn't need a Pike-daddy, because he is Kirk ... if any version of Kirk needs a Pike Daddy, then he is a tool of history and the servitor of plot, not James T. Kirk, the guy who chooses.
Destiny... only in so far that we, the audience, want to see Kirk in that centre-seat.