With all due respect, there is hardly any positivity coming from the most vocal four or five people who dislike the film here. Just seemingly a lot of bitterness (which one person admitted to) and over the top negativity. Seemingly trying to ruin it for everyone else basically. That's why some members are fed up and created the two threads that cropped up in the past week or so.
I can't remember whether I was the one person, but I'll be more than happy to say that I feel a lot of bitterness about the movie. I'm bitter that, in all likelihood, there will never be any new material that remotely resembles the characters or settings that I have grown to love so much. I'm bitter that this is what Abrams thinks is "good Star Trek." I can accept that it may be a good movie, as far as escapist summer blockbusters go, but I cannot accept that it has the slightest similarity to what Star Trek was ever intended to be. Andromeda is truer to the essential concepts of Star Trek than this movie is. And for that, I am bitter.
I'm not bitter that other people enjoyed the movie; to be honest, I
wish that I could enjoy it, because then there would be a big, brand-shiny-new Star Trek movie for me to watch over and over again. I think I've said earlier in this thread, there may be some people who prefer to hate a movie, for the sake of wallowing in self-pity, I guess, but I'm not one of them. And I'm probably gonna see the next movie in the theater, despite how disappointed I was with this one, in the hope that it might be more entertaining.
So, no; I, for one am not trying to ruin it for everyone else. If you enjoyed the movie, I'm baffled but happy for you. I wish I could see it the way you do. But I do like intellectual discourse, and honestly, it's cathartic to type out some of the things that were so (subjectively) wrong with the movie. So call me crazy, I don't care, but I'm a Star Trek fan, and if I observe a part of the Star Trek universe that I don't find to be of good quality, it does bother me. It even upsets me (so maybe that makes me crazy, whatever). Writing about some of the particular things that upset me does help to relieve the frustration. But I like to think I'm doing it in a polite, non-inflammatory way, that's in keeping with the flow of the discussion. (The reason that we began pointing out examples of Kirk being a jerk is that someone asked for them.) This all started with a person saying that his hypotheses was that some people make a concerted effort not to suspend their disbelief and enjoy the movie. Myself and some others stated it wasn't true in our cases, and from there, the thread became a discussion of the particular nuances of our perceptions of the movie, that is, whether it was our predispositions or elements of what we saw onscreen that caused us to dislike it. So, ultimately, it is in keeping with the essential subject matter, and it need not be seen as an attempt to poison the well.
If not by discussing what elements of the movie caused us to change our minds about it (since I and at least one other have said that we went in with the intention of enjoying ourselves), then how else would you suggest we move the discussion forward?