A couple of days ago, I watched We'll Always Have Paris for the first time in many years. One thing that never really caught my attention until now was the conversation between Picard and his former flame, that Manheim woman (I've forgotten her first name).
Picard stood her up twenty-two years prior, apparently to pursue his life in the stars. She had surmised that he felt that life with her would have made him "ordinary"'. Acknowledging this, Picard laughed and said "Am I that transparent?" She replies "Only to me.".
I think it would have come across better if Picard had said "Was I that transparent?". His use of 'am' kind of implies that he still sees himself that way. Reflecting back on his younger days, and implying that he hasn't changed his view seems to imply a shallowness to his character, whereas we can probably all look back twenty-two years and think "Boy, was I stupid back then.".
What's even worse is that she seems/seemed to have no problem with this. Now, I have no idea what is in the minds of other people of course, but this little peek into their private conversation seems to reveal them to be pretty vacuous people. I realize that pursuing a command career implies a degree of ego and confidence and all that, it's not something suited to the shy, reserved or self-depricating type of person. However, none of our other Captains seem to possess this particular quality.
And later, he says to her husband, "You underestimate her. I know, because I once did." Underestimated what, exactly? That she's willing to be just as shallow as him, and they would have been great together?
My point is, there seems to be no reflection of the 'foolish choices of youth' presented here. I get the implication that both he and her haven't changed one iota.
Am I reading too much into this?
Picard stood her up twenty-two years prior, apparently to pursue his life in the stars. She had surmised that he felt that life with her would have made him "ordinary"'. Acknowledging this, Picard laughed and said "Am I that transparent?" She replies "Only to me.".
I think it would have come across better if Picard had said "Was I that transparent?". His use of 'am' kind of implies that he still sees himself that way. Reflecting back on his younger days, and implying that he hasn't changed his view seems to imply a shallowness to his character, whereas we can probably all look back twenty-two years and think "Boy, was I stupid back then.".
What's even worse is that she seems/seemed to have no problem with this. Now, I have no idea what is in the minds of other people of course, but this little peek into their private conversation seems to reveal them to be pretty vacuous people. I realize that pursuing a command career implies a degree of ego and confidence and all that, it's not something suited to the shy, reserved or self-depricating type of person. However, none of our other Captains seem to possess this particular quality.
And later, he says to her husband, "You underestimate her. I know, because I once did." Underestimated what, exactly? That she's willing to be just as shallow as him, and they would have been great together?
My point is, there seems to be no reflection of the 'foolish choices of youth' presented here. I get the implication that both he and her haven't changed one iota.
Am I reading too much into this?
