Ven du ju maykeh da sex?

[apostle83]

One day, I will be married.

I seek input from married couples as to what a good sex schedule isn't.

I hope to learn from your failures!

 

[Maestro]

Don't be so negative. Why don't you try to learn from our successes?

 

[ThankQ]

I've only ever needed a schedule when I'm out of town on business.

 

[The Squire of Gothos]

I seek input from married couples as to what a good sex schedule isn't.

What's different about sex for those who aren't married.

And what makes you think there's a schedule for sex? When are you in the mood, when is your wife to be?

 

[nevermore]

Sex schedule?!

The day I find myself scheduling sex is the day I schedule a leap off the Bay Bridge.

 

[Cayla]

I didn't know I was supposed to make an appointment.

 

[Maestro]

Once you have a child, the need to schedule sex actually exists, merely because there's another entity in the house that you need to consider.

 

[1001001]

Sex schedule?!

The day I find myself scheduling sex is the day I schedule a leap off the Bay Bridge.

That's a bit dramatic, don't you think?

You start scheduling sex the day you have your first kid.

 

[nevermore]

You start scheduling sex the day you have your first kid.

Sweet. Reason #4092 not to have kids.

 

[DarkHelmet]

Sex schedule?!

The day I find myself scheduling sex is the day I schedule a leap off the Bay Bridge.

That's a bit dramatic, don't you think?

You start scheduling sex the day you have your first kid.

I assume you are speaking for yourself. We have a kid, and don't 'scheudle' sex at all.

 

[Maestro]

Husband: "Hey, the kid's taking a nap. Wanna screw?"

Wife: "Is it on the schedule?"

Husband: "No."

Wife: "Then I have a headache."

 

[May 20]

And, it's often nice to schedule sex. It then becomes something to anticipate. Anticipation is a lovely aphrodisiac.

Really, apostle, I don't know what to tell you. What works for my DH and me won't work for you for this reason -- different couples have different needs, even before you throw in the variable of being in different life stages. This is one you and the soon-to-be-Mrs. will have to figure out together.

 

[apostle83]

I've always heard that spontenaity is good.

Therfore, tell me about your scheduled failures.

 

[1001001]

I assume you are speaking for yourself. We have a kid, and don't 'scheudle' sex at all.

No, I was presenting Objective Truth for all people at all times...



Who the fuck else would I be talking about?

What is with this forum lately? I swear don't anybody answer a question without 100 qualifiers and conditionals first, lest you be "speaking for everyone".

 

[May 20]

Sure, spontenaity is good. And sure, scheduling is good. Both are good because both bring different facets into the relationship.

And, no, I'm afraid I can't tell you about any scheduled failures, nor can I tell you about any spontaneous failures.

 

[Colonel Green]

Nobody can really give you a "standard". Some people NEED to have sex every day. Others are content with once a month, if that.

This is a conversation you should be having with your girlfriend, not us. Nobody here can give you any useful advice beyond this: Determine what you each want, and find a compromise.

 

[apostle83]

Well, we've talked about sex, and we both say that right away after marriage, we want 2x a day, and maybe a lunch quickie.

I wonder how long that will last.

 

[Hoser]

One day to two weeks, depending on the quality of lubrication.

 

[Colonel Green]

Well, we've talked about sex, and we both say that right away after marriage, we want 2x a day, and maybe a lunch quickie.

I wonder how long that will last.

My guess? Until you get off for the first time, although there may be a honeymoon period.

My gf and I have many times intended to spend a whole weekend getting it on. Sometime it happens, sometimes I lose interest for a while after the first go.

 

[Mallory]

You start scheduling sex the day you have your first kid.

Digits speaks the truth.