Cary L. Brown said:
saul said:
Starship Polaris said:You have to look at the kinds of things that have been said about these people. Most of it was and is underinformed, unrealistic and mean. I didn't think and still don't think that one fannish dig at the Trek producers in one thousand had much merit,
Funny because the same thing could be said for any of your posts where you constantly had a dig at Star Trek fans, the fan community and anyone who had the slightest criticism of anything Berman Trek.
For the people you don't know and have never met you sure love to categorise all star trek fans as sad losers, the same kind of mentality as ignorant people who say all muslims as terroists.
You have held a holier than thou attitude to anyone who had an opinion on Star Trek that didn't agree with your view.
All of that may be fair and true (and I've said similar things in the past). But in THIS THREAD, I think Dennis's statements have been reasonable and level.
It's always a bad thing to drag up past behavior if the behavior isn't being shown at the time, I think. If you do that, you just guarantee FUTURE and ONGOING conflict.
In this thread, Dennis's comments have been fair, level, and reasonable, and it's pretty wrongheaded to "reward good behavior" by dredging up prior bad behavior just to make a point.
Imagine a different situation (and Dennis, I'm not calling you a child, I'm just giving a more clearly illustrative example, K?

). You're a parent. Your kid midbehaved for an entire week... and you grounded him. He got the idea, though, and for the next month totally changed his ways... mowed the lawn without being asked, cleaned his room, did his homework.
Then, he asks if he can have a privilege. And you deny it because of the week of bad behavior a month before, disregarding the more recent good behavior.
The kid will NEVER want to behave himself from that point forward, will he?
"Grudges" are always counterproductive. In this thread, and in particular on this topic, Dennis's comments have been entirely reasonable and fair (moreso than a couple of others he's responded to). I, personally, am GLAD of that. And I'm a bit annoyed at seeing the attacks on stuff he's done in the past. If he tosses a comment like that out in this discussion... sure, respond. But he hasn't... has he? Who's to say he WILL? Maybe he's had a total change of heart and no longer even feels that way. (Unlikely? Sure... but possible nevertheless, right?)
I mean... dude... that's what my EX used to do... and DAMN it annoyed me!