I suppose violation is in the eye of the beholder. And, I think that Sirtis handles it well. I think the rest of the episode handles it very, very poorly.Within the last few years Marina Sirtis did an interview with the Mission Log podcast where they bring up "The Child" and that it's a troubling rape trope, and I was fascinated by how she doesn't seem to view the episode that way at all. She cites other times Deanna was violated -- "Violations", "Nemesis" -- but doesn't seem to include "The Child" in that category.