Why compare? Really. Where is the basis for a fair comparison? Best in what way? Look, I get it that some believe Abrams didn't capture the essence and being of Roddenberry's "vision thing," whatever that really was (and I think we all -- myself included -- tend to define that to fit our own purposes). Let's move on.
Why must we constantly have to denigrate one form of Trek in order to support another? It's getting tiring. Why do they always have to be ranked? That's getting tiring, too. They all had strengths, they all had warts, they all entertained.
To be blunt, in the broadest sense, they all have one thing that ties them together, from TOS to Abrams and every spin off in between -- the belief that we really are OK people. Foibles and all, we will be fine. We are progressing towards something better even if we sometimes take three steps back and only one step forward. Just by being there, if not in theme or said explicitly in episodes, that "good future" we would all want to live in was on TV every week across several series. It's the one thing I've always thought all versions of Trek has had that had made it different than most of its competition. The feeling that in the end, everything will be OK. Our better angels will rule.
I thought that feeling was conveyed in both Abrams movies. And all Trek has conveyed it, they just entertained differently as they did.