Pretty awesome, for sure!
I had just as good a line (even if I do say so myself) in reply to a post in a different thread but the nasty moderator locked it before I could get my pun in.
Today I am going to ask out a stripper!
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Pretty awesome, for sure!
I had just as good a line (even if I do say so myself) in reply to a post in a different thread but the nasty moderator locked it before I could get my pun in.
Those Misc Mods are all alike. 
Rii
Rear Admiral
Tasteless.
Well, since you said "Please"....
Well...I allready sendt sometime ago couple of good links, to couple of very good dating sites, to JaysonCan we please just take up a collection and get a woman for Jayson.
Not sure if he the tried them, though
Did you Jayson?
This isn't epic failure. This is me trying my options and doing things I haven't done before. I have always been shy,painfully shy to a point were I would be afraid to ask girls out. You know how hard it is to be both shy and wierd at the same time? I have the personality that would better fit a more outgoing person but that hasn't been me for most of my life.
Even if things don't work out with the stripper or the tranny or the lesbian or the girl in the wheelchair or this girl that works with my mom and I am intrested in then at least I am gaining experience. I see it almost like practice dating so I can eventually get to a point were I can find someone to love. Who knows maybe it will even be some of the girls I already mentioned or maybe it's not. All I know is I am trying to expand myself and I think I am doing a okay job at it,considering I have some mental issues and shyness issues and some lack of money issues's working against me. Not to mention I am not so bright. I mean I alm creative but I am not going to be solving the world's problems anytime soon. Granted this doesn't change my desire to rule the planet and make it a Jaysonion utopia but it's proably best that utopia doesn't happen.
Jason
Jason
Hopefully, this will continue to increase your confidence and self esteem; you've still got a way to go, but you're on the right track, so now would be the wrong time to give up.
Hopefully, this will continue to increase your confidence and self esteem; you've still got a way to go, but you're on the right track, so now would be the wrong time to give up.
I don't plan to give up until I am 50. If I haven't found love by then it's to late. I refuse to be loney person in a nursing home and that is when I will kill myself. Hopefully things work out for me before that happens though I sort of feel bad for the versions of me in other alternate universe's who also have the same plan and will end up going through it.
Jason
Jayson, you sound a lot like a young man who worked for me a few years back. He was smart, shy, liked gambling at the local card clubs, and lived with his parents. And, oh yeah, on one of his earlier jobs doing demographic sampling if his crew finished early the supervisor would take them to a strip club.
He would ask me for tips on how to ask a woman for a date; he'd never been on one at age 26. I suppose he trusted me, a mid forties Hispanic lesbian more than anyone else for this sort of advice. ( Miss Anna, there was a Nordic blonde woman at the market, she adjusted her hair while looking at me, do you think she was trying to get my attention? That sort of thing. )
His favorite radio station was KPFK, a strongly left wing oriented broadcaster. They had a Friday morning show with a community involvement opportunities segment; I suggested he go to some of these and just make friends. He did and became less shy.
Ultimately it turned out he just didn't quite have what it takes to work with us, a shame as I really liked him. I used my Power Dyke Super Rolodex to help find a job for him that was a better fit for his skills. I check every once in a while and he's still there, he's dating now and enjoys life more.
Jayson, perhaps you could check to see if there are any shyness support groups in your area, or maybe community groups that would fit your interest.
He would ask me for tips on how to ask a woman for a date; he'd never been on one at age 26. I suppose he trusted me, a mid forties Hispanic lesbian more than anyone else for this sort of advice. ( Miss Anna, there was a Nordic blonde woman at the market, she adjusted her hair while looking at me, do you think she was trying to get my attention? That sort of thing. )
His favorite radio station was KPFK, a strongly left wing oriented broadcaster. They had a Friday morning show with a community involvement opportunities segment; I suggested he go to some of these and just make friends. He did and became less shy.
Ultimately it turned out he just didn't quite have what it takes to work with us, a shame as I really liked him. I used my Power Dyke Super Rolodex to help find a job for him that was a better fit for his skills. I check every once in a while and he's still there, he's dating now and enjoys life more.
Jayson, perhaps you could check to see if there are any shyness support groups in your area, or maybe community groups that would fit your interest.
Gaining experience in doing what?
Rii
Rear Admiral
Perhaps you could try assembling them like Voltron.
I agree. This is not failure at all. Keep trying things. It'll get easier and easier and you'll have successes as well. I applaud your efforts! Keep at it!
Mr Awe
This thread is perplexing, funny, and pathetic; but first of all, I've got to say that I am rather taken by the level of civility and humanity displayed here.
As for Jayson's adventures, they... well...
I believe that one of the most important things in life (if not THE most important thing) is showing strength and decisiveness, even when you don't feel the best or don't know what the heck to do with yourself.
I'm the kind of person who feels wierd turning around and walking the opposite direction if I have forgotten something, because I don't want to be seen displaying the weakness of indecision; I overthink things and usually play safe; some folks would say too safe. Compared to people that party and have a blast, my life is pretty boring; but things usually don't go wrong, and while I don't have many friends, the few people who know or have known me give me respect.
Jayson, discipline of the mind isn't always easy or fun; but it is better than being laughed at or having your judgement treated as inferior by those around you.
One of my personal favorite thoughts: If there is nothing to do, learn to be content to do nothing.
As for Jayson's adventures, they... well...
I believe that one of the most important things in life (if not THE most important thing) is showing strength and decisiveness, even when you don't feel the best or don't know what the heck to do with yourself.
I'm the kind of person who feels wierd turning around and walking the opposite direction if I have forgotten something, because I don't want to be seen displaying the weakness of indecision; I overthink things and usually play safe; some folks would say too safe. Compared to people that party and have a blast, my life is pretty boring; but things usually don't go wrong, and while I don't have many friends, the few people who know or have known me give me respect.
Jayson, discipline of the mind isn't always easy or fun; but it is better than being laughed at or having your judgement treated as inferior by those around you.
One of my personal favorite thoughts: If there is nothing to do, learn to be content to do nothing.
Good luck,
If I did I'd be shot down so fast ........
If I did I'd be shot down so fast ........
Great. I have eighteen months to find the love of my life or I'm doomed.Hopefully, this will continue to increase your confidence and self esteem; you've still got a way to go, but you're on the right track, so now would be the wrong time to give up.
I don't plan to give up until I am 50. If I haven't found love by then it's to late. I refuse to be loney person in a nursing home and that is when I will kill myself.
Socializing, flirting, dating, interacting romantically, getting to know various types of people. Experience with living. This is all good, especially for somebody who finds these things difficult.
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