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Things that frustrate us all

I wonder which is worse.
As in which situation would've worse to endure/tolerate/experience?

So you’re seriously wondering which of these two situations, hearing “god bless you” when you sneeze or having a 31 year old man follow a little girl into the bathroom, is worse?

Seriously? Why do I detect an ulterior point here? One perhaps you don’t want to say directly?
 
I wonder which is worse.
As in which situation would've worse to endure/tolerate/experience?

If you are referring to sexual predation, I would think you would be hard-pressed to find someone here who didn't agree it was heinous, especially with a child involved.

However, it also goes way beyond the level of mere "frustration".

Are you referring to a specific incident, or is this just a hypothetical situation? This whole thread has been (mostly) about "first world problems", so I'm not sure why you're choosing to compare this one with such a serious thing. I guess I share @1001001 's confusion on the point you are making, but I would certainly welcome further clarification.
 
If you are referring to sexual predation, I would think you would be hard-pressed to find someone here who didn't agree it was heinous, especially with a child involved.

However, it also goes way beyond the level of mere "frustration".

Are you referring to a specific incident, or is this just a hypothetical situation? This whole thread has been (mostly) about "first world problems", so I'm not sure why you're choosing to compare this one with such a serious thing. I guess I share @1001001 's confusion on the point you are making, but I would certainly welcome further clarification.
Just comparing the frustration level of each.
As above ". God Damn it" when stepping in dog poo.
It's just a reaction people have been conditioned to say.
Saying that a person is shoving their beliefs onto a person by saying that,
Is similar to the frustration of seeing a man going into the woman's restroom. On purpose. But it seems that the second belief might be a little more difficult for a person to deal with than "God bless you", after a sneeze or "God damn it, " after a poo incident.

Just a "shoving belief" question.
 
Saying that a person is shoving their beliefs onto a person by saying that,
Is similar to the frustration of seeing a man going into the woman's restroom. On purpose. But it seems that the second belief might be a little more difficult for a person to deal with than "God bless you", after a sneeze or "God damn it, " after a poo incident.

Just a "shoving belief" question.

I was willing to give you the benefit of the doubt with this, but now with the "shoving belief" comment, I see where you appear to be coming from, and what you are saying without explicitly stating it.

There is no room for such intolerance here, so I am going to ask you nicely to please stop. Thank you.
 
Just comparing the frustration level of each.
As above ". God Damn it" when stepping in dog poo.
It's just a reaction people have been conditioned to say.
Saying that a person is shoving their beliefs onto a person by saying that,
Is similar to the frustration of seeing a man going into the woman's restroom. On purpose. But it seems that the second belief might be a little more difficult for a person to deal with than "God bless you", after a sneeze or "God damn it, " after a poo incident.

Just a "shoving belief" question.
Awesome Possum is coming after you, I would bet money on that.
 
I wonder which is worse.
1. Someone saying, "God bless you." When someone sneezes.
2. A 31 year old man entering the woman's restroom after a ten year old girl went inside.
I wonder which is worse.
As in which situation would've worse to endure/tolerate/experience?
Just comparing the frustration level of each.
As above ". God Damn it" when stepping in dog poo.
It's just a reaction people have been conditioned to say.
Saying that a person is shoving their beliefs onto a person by saying that,
Is similar to the frustration of seeing a man going into the woman's restroom. On purpose. But it seems that the second belief might be a little more difficult for a person to deal with than "God bless you", after a sneeze or "God damn it, " after a poo incident.
Just a "shoving belief" question.
You keep dancing around the issue instead of just speaking plainly, which is somehow almost worse than just being openly bigoted. but it's obvious that you are referring to transgender women using the women's restroom by the fact that you keep referring to it as "shoving belief." Comparing women who have never attacked or harmed anyone while using the restrooms that conform to their identity to pedophiles is ignorant and offensive, as is bringing it into a silly innocuous thread like this. Don't do it again.

ETA: Sorry, Avro, I was typing this up before you replied. Didn't mean to step on your toes.
 
My bad.
It was "forcing their religion" not shoving.
Sorry.
Have a nice day
No, the only ones forcing their religious beliefs on others are the ones trying to deny transgender women the right to use the restrooms that conform to their gender identity based on nothing but ignorance and bigotry. This isn't a religious issue for transgender women, it's a basic human decency and safety and survival question, since they do experience sexual assault and violence and even murder at the hands of men.
 
Perhaps we should try and avoid brining religion
I don't feel she's forcing her religion on him, she's just offering well wishes because she feels it's a societal grace to do so. I feel more he's the one pushing his religion, because instead of accepting the kind gesture he goes out of his way to be nasty to her when she was just trying to be kind.

Like I totally don't believe at all in temporal reward of prayer, but when I'm going through something difficult and someone tells me she'll "pray for me", I just say "thank you" because I know she's just trying to to comfort me in a way she knows how, and she means well and is really trying to tell me while she can't actually do anything she's spending emotional energy on me, and I can simply and graciously accept her support. But like if I start lecturing her "oh prayers don't really do anything!" then I'm taking something good and turning it around, and to me I feel like that makes me a bad person.

If they can't/couldn't have done anything to prevent or minimise the reason for thoughts and prayers then I can understand your point of view. But I find when I read Politicians sending their thoughts and prayers after reading about yet another mass shooting in the USA I find them to be hollow.
 
I hate it when my dogs, who resemble dogs that play wolves on TV, run up to complete strangers and try to smooch.
It's embarrassing.
 
When the owners of the company you work for put their family members on the fast track to management/leadership roles despite having no experience in the field.

Kor
 
If they can't/couldn't have done anything to prevent or minimise the reason for thoughts and prayers then I can understand your point of view. But I find when I read Politicians sending their thoughts and prayers after reading about yet another mass shooting in the USA I find them to be hollow.
Oh dear no I don't feel that's the same thing at all. I mean just someone trying to empathize with me and show emotional support? Like I'm going for a surgery and my friend says she's praying for me, well I don't feel it'll actually change things but I know what she means is that she's thinking about me and hoping everything goes okay, and there's really nothing more she can do so I'm not going to throw that back in her face, that'd just be cruel?
 
Oh dear no I don't feel that's the same thing at all. I mean just someone trying to empathize with me and show emotional support? Like I'm going for a surgery and my friend says she's praying for me, well I don't feel it'll actually change things but I know what she means is that she's thinking about me and hoping everything goes okay, and there's really nothing more she can do so I'm not going to throw that back in her face, that'd just be cruel?
I tend to go with the motivation too. Like if someone is religious and they have sourced something of importance to them be it a prayer or blessing then it comes from them wanting to project something of value they hold dear onto another. Say someone is a believer in magik or another form of spirituality and they offer me a spell. I know they care even if it is not my belief system. In some small part and this may be opening a can of worms I weigh up good manners too. Like if a man steps aside for me. Is he being sexist or just polite? I open doors for other people in general if I get there first! It's a tricky world we live in where we override our intuition sometimes.
 
Oh my, YES!

I choose to believe people mean well, unless he or she is outwardly rude or hostile, then I pity them because they're probably acting that way because of suffering. I totally hold doors for men, so I don't think it's really sexist, I feel he's probably just being polite and kind when he holds a door for me.

I just love this one episode of Frasier, I don't know what it's called or what season or anything, but it's like one of my favorite tv show episodes ever! He's talking on his show about believing people are good, and all his friends are giving him such a hard time, and bad things keep happening to him. Like he finds someone's wallet, and the man accuses him of stealing, and things like that. Well he's driving in the rain and stops at a light, and sees a woman getting soaked and she waves at him, so he invites her into his car for a ride. She gets him arrested, because she's really a transvestite prostitute, and his father has to come bail him out, and his son sees him in the newspaper the next morning, it's all terribly embarrassing and awkward. But it was all just his dream, he's still in the car at the stop light, and with everything he imagined he AGAIN beckons her over to offer a ride, because even if his horrible scenario comes true he knows it's still the right thing to do! Oh it's so beautiful, makes me cry, lol. (It all turns out well, she lives in his building and would've thought him a creep if he'd left her!)
 
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