This seems like a good enough place to say that I just didn't feel the ol' optimism-wonder ethos that Nimoy speaks to and JJ said he was keeping.in this movie. Do other people find it? I'm willing to admit being wrong.“A lot of science-fiction is nihilistic and dark and dreadful about the future, and ‘Star Trek’ is the opposite,” Mr. Nimoy said. “We need that kind of hope, we need that kind of confidence in the future. I think that’s what ‘Star Trek’ offers. I have to believe that — I’m the glass-half-full kind of guy.”
As I said in the other "theme" thread, this movie sticks to the fundamental message of Trek:
The future works. Diverse individuals can work together, overcoming their own human and alien frailities, to achieve their full potential.
If you want to get high-falutin' about it, you can even argue that Kirk's arc is a metaphor for the human spirit. He overcomes a tragic, violent, misguided past to become a Starfleet captain, saving lives and exploring the universe.
Yeah, ok.