Oh, sure - I've seen the RLM review as well - I particularly agree with the sentiment that JJ Abrams should have directed the new Star Wars movies while George Lucas should have directed people to their seats.
Other than picking up the pace, though, I just don't see that big a connection. Even the Kirk/Luke connection that people point out doesn't really indicate a connection to Star Wars to me so much as it indicates a connection to the monomyth.
Edit: As for the technology, I just don't see red matter as any more of an obstacle to get over than the transporter. One was used as a plot device to make a black hole, the other was used because the ship was just too big to land. Sure, later writers came along and made up some BS about how the transporter "actually" works, but that's really just for the spazzes who need to know every little detail about Trek.