(This is the first thread I am starting. I am actually a little nervous about posting it. Take a stab at it, I am curious about the feedback, just hope I won't come away feeling like a total fool)
I have had this little pet theory of mine for a bit and I am putting it out here so that you all can take a whack at it. I am under no illusion that this is not a completely biased take born from the desire to turn Chakotay into a hero, albeit a quiet one, because he is just so damn hot.
So here it goes.
Mulgrew wanted Janeway to be a role model for women and I think she did a good job at it. However, the real role model in my mind is Chakotay.
(okay, I can basically hear the collective groan of the Chakotay critics but let this girl have some fun)
Chakotay not only let Janeway be the captain, he supported her, was loyal to her and more than once swallowed his pride of that I am sure. He defended her decisions, even when he would have decided otherwise – everything a good XO should do.
I am not a great Next Gen fan and haven’t seen them all but I don’t recall Riker organizing mutinies on a regular basis and people don’t call him a yesman for that, as they frequently do with poor Chakotay.
Chakotay was something for Janeway, that is still rare today and was even rarer 20 years ago: a man supporting a strong woman and playing second fiddle without questioning her at every turn and organizing insurrections every time they have a different opinion. He is the man standing behind the strong woman. Women have done that for men for, like, forever, why can’t a guy do that for a woman without being called a weakling?
He could have been more of a badass and many people seem to think that would have been appealing and more becoming to a Marquis and Angry Warrior. But he wasn’t an angry warrior anymore, he had found a balance in his life and made a promise to be her loyal XO. He kept that, but that does not make him weak or a yes-man. This makes him a role model in my mind, a man who has conquered his ego enough not to go to battle every time he doesn’t get his way. A man who has the strength to accept that he doesn’t always have the last word and who does not feel emasculated by it. That is real strength, not sable rattling, arrogance and slamming fists on random available surfaces.
In all of that he doesn’t lose his own opinions, he just knows to step back when doing his job as XO. That doesn’t mean that he didn’t have strong convictions and ideals he would passionately argue and defend.
If more men could behave that way, there would be a lot more women in positions of power.
I guess that his spirituality helped him to attain this balance. I am not a very spiritual person myself so this part is hard for me to understand but admire the result, however it was achieved. I like his quiet, unassuming strength, his loyalty and his calmness, which some people refer to as wooden.
He is exactly the man he needed to be to let Janeway be a role model for women whether he was deliberately written that way (highly doubtful) or not. It is hard to step up to the plate as a woman but I am convinced it is equally hard and honorable to step back as a man in a society that still seems to expect that the guy leads the way and the woman follows behind supporting him.
So, there you have it, my defense of Chakotay, the real role model of Voyager for a more modern understanding of gender roles.
I have had this little pet theory of mine for a bit and I am putting it out here so that you all can take a whack at it. I am under no illusion that this is not a completely biased take born from the desire to turn Chakotay into a hero, albeit a quiet one, because he is just so damn hot.
So here it goes.
Mulgrew wanted Janeway to be a role model for women and I think she did a good job at it. However, the real role model in my mind is Chakotay.
(okay, I can basically hear the collective groan of the Chakotay critics but let this girl have some fun)
Chakotay not only let Janeway be the captain, he supported her, was loyal to her and more than once swallowed his pride of that I am sure. He defended her decisions, even when he would have decided otherwise – everything a good XO should do.
I am not a great Next Gen fan and haven’t seen them all but I don’t recall Riker organizing mutinies on a regular basis and people don’t call him a yesman for that, as they frequently do with poor Chakotay.
Chakotay was something for Janeway, that is still rare today and was even rarer 20 years ago: a man supporting a strong woman and playing second fiddle without questioning her at every turn and organizing insurrections every time they have a different opinion. He is the man standing behind the strong woman. Women have done that for men for, like, forever, why can’t a guy do that for a woman without being called a weakling?
He could have been more of a badass and many people seem to think that would have been appealing and more becoming to a Marquis and Angry Warrior. But he wasn’t an angry warrior anymore, he had found a balance in his life and made a promise to be her loyal XO. He kept that, but that does not make him weak or a yes-man. This makes him a role model in my mind, a man who has conquered his ego enough not to go to battle every time he doesn’t get his way. A man who has the strength to accept that he doesn’t always have the last word and who does not feel emasculated by it. That is real strength, not sable rattling, arrogance and slamming fists on random available surfaces.
In all of that he doesn’t lose his own opinions, he just knows to step back when doing his job as XO. That doesn’t mean that he didn’t have strong convictions and ideals he would passionately argue and defend.
If more men could behave that way, there would be a lot more women in positions of power.
I guess that his spirituality helped him to attain this balance. I am not a very spiritual person myself so this part is hard for me to understand but admire the result, however it was achieved. I like his quiet, unassuming strength, his loyalty and his calmness, which some people refer to as wooden.
He is exactly the man he needed to be to let Janeway be a role model for women whether he was deliberately written that way (highly doubtful) or not. It is hard to step up to the plate as a woman but I am convinced it is equally hard and honorable to step back as a man in a society that still seems to expect that the guy leads the way and the woman follows behind supporting him.
So, there you have it, my defense of Chakotay, the real role model of Voyager for a more modern understanding of gender roles.