That's reading too much into it. There's nothing bizarre or homoerotic about a young man hero-worshipping an older man who's both a father figure and the person in the highest position of authority where he lives.
Agreed... looking way too far into it.
He was a kid who dreamed of being on a Starship, specifically working on a Starship. He was amazed by the bridge and studied everything about the ship's operations, which control panels do what, etc. He wanted to be a part of the crew (which eventually happens)
I don't see a difference between what he (a kid at the time) did and what other kids do with tv shows, movies or games where they have an adult "hero" pretending to communicate with them.
Thunderbirds are GO!
Is there ANYTHING about Wesley that isn't creepy, belabored, irritating and in general poorly conceived and implemented? A character so flawed, even the actor hired to play the character has spent 20+ years openly mocking it.
Mocking mostly because fans already mocked his character for a long time.
I found him annoying in some earlier episodes, but never thought of him as poorly conceived or poorly implemented.
All kids around that age get annoying, especially the knowitalls.
It's been tossed around for a while now, but Wes was designed to be a representation of a younger Gene and Gene had lashed out and defended Wil's Character openly because he took criticism of Wesley Crusher personally.
Was he flawed?
All the characters were flawed in one way or another. That's what made them possible to be related to. Wes's flaw was that he was a try-hard and always wanted to show how good he was in order to over compensate for his age and lack of maturity.
This later unfolded into the character that we saw evolve as Wesley was cut out of the show..... a kid who grew up in the shadows of other people in his life and expected to fill the shoes others put in front of him. To the point where he didn't even figure out what he really wanted for himself. He was too busy trying to prove himself to those he looked up to.
... something many of us have gone through while growing up.
At face value, his character annoyed many. He irritated many because of all of the above.
People I have seen complain about Wesley complain that he was a knowitall who saved the ship and crew on a number of occasions because the show made him seem like he was smarter than everybody else on the ship. This kid could do something productive and think of things some of the adults couldn't think of.
It's like these people get PO'd that "The Nerd Kid" gets attention from time to time and "The Nerd Kid" can actually do something productive. Heaven forbid "The Nerd Kid" ends up showing he has some use in society other than being a punching bag for bullies.
Why are there nerd kids in the world anyways?
They're considered nerds and are unpopular because they're smart and annoying because they lack any social skills....
.... why do they lack social skills to the point of being annoying?
Because they're smart and others in society don't like being made to look dumb.... so they don't want to hear from them.
And in TNG, they shove "The Nerd Kid" right in your face and you just have to deal with it.
I will admit though. The Traveler is pretty fricking creepy.