That's the problem with holodeck. You can change or reprogram weaknesses, outward appearances and other things you don't like. I guess, it's the artificial, unrealistic scenario with the Doctor's family that puts off hux.
In reality you have to deal with unpleasant people. Raising children is no matter or programming them to your liking.
This whole holo family episode was soap opera like, but still entertaining.
It's still possible that the Doctor finds a flesh-and-blood partner. As he is unable to procreate, they could raise an orphan. After the wars the AQ underwent in recent times, there would be many children left without parents. That would be a real challenge for the Doctor.
But the whole family scenario seemed to have been an experiment to me. The Doctor is more busy with earning appreciation for his work, even after Voyager's return to the AQ.
In reality you have to deal with unpleasant people. Raising children is no matter or programming them to your liking.
This whole holo family episode was soap opera like, but still entertaining.
It's still possible that the Doctor finds a flesh-and-blood partner. As he is unable to procreate, they could raise an orphan. After the wars the AQ underwent in recent times, there would be many children left without parents. That would be a real challenge for the Doctor.
But the whole family scenario seemed to have been an experiment to me. The Doctor is more busy with earning appreciation for his work, even after Voyager's return to the AQ.