I'm 23. I'm dead broke, so I can't do much except hang around the house, which I prefer anyway. I'm about to graduate, and hope I can find some kind of adult employment. Getting sick of struggling to pay the bills every month.
other than that, I live with my girlfriend.Nothing exciting, but my life is okay.
I know how the whole broke and hanging around the house thing goes. Take right now, for example. I got off work, and I'm sitting at home here. It's 5 PM, and I don't have anything to do until my next shift at 4:30 tomorrow evening. I could go drive somewhere, or go do something, but everything costs money. In a way it makes better sense to just sit around on here, hang out in my dark house at my office desk, and rewatch Star Wars and Star Trek.
If these are the best years of my life, I am seriously fucked!
LOL! Well, remember... and this has taken me a while to realize... the best time of your life should always be
right now. The "best days" aren't really ahead of us, or behind us. There will always be new things that are wonderful, and boring things, and new problems; but if you spend too much time thinking about "one day" then you miss out on all the magic of the moment.
As for myself, I'm 22, and I feel like I've reached stable adulthood. I feel well-adjusted, and I don't feel insecure as I did in my teenage and younger adult years. I know what I want to do with my life, and I enjoy things the way they are.
I do have obstacles. There are business issues that cause problems and occasional stress; but overall, my life is good. I was raised in a very isolated way - homeschooled by a dysfunctional and very protective mother - and then she went kind of insane, and so my early adulthood is overshadowed by my obligation to take care of my mother who has declining mental health.
At 22, I still have never had any friends my age or a girlfriend. When you have your crazy mother living at your house, it isn't really condusive to dating. I like being around people, but my social network (or lack of one) is one of my biggest things that I need to work on. I often wish I could just skip the drama of being early 20's and just have my stable job, wife, and maybe kids. I relate better to the 30+ crowd, because I think the maturity that comes with having that extra life experience is appealing, and less nerve-racking.