This is a fantastic list highlighting why Captain Benjamin Sisko stands out as a remarkable leader and character. I'd love to delve deeper into your thoughts and hear more about your perspective. You mentioned that Sisko is the most relatable captain.
What specific qualities or experiences make him relatable to you?
How do you see yourself in him?
I'm really interested to hear more about your thoughts and any additional insights you might have!
Thank you, and I'd be happy to share more of my thoughts on Sisko!
What makes him so relatable to me?
I'll start with the pilot, "EMISSARY". He starts off, 3 years after losing his wife, still stuck in that moment full of pain and grief. By the end of the pilot, with the help of the Prophets, he is able to move past that moment and start healing. Already, he starts off the show as a
human, not a larger than life captain of a starship. Years later, in 2005, I lost my grandmother... someone I was closer to than anyone. I was extremely distraught. I started drinking heavily. I was literally stuck in that moment of time when I saw her laying on the ground... a face so full of life and joy, no longer living. That image still haunts me sometimes. But after a while, I was able to slowly move on and keep her memory alive by following everything she taught me and doing my best to be a decent person.
He is a great father figure... one that ALL dads could learn something from. Great example: "SHADOWPLAY". Jake tells him he doesn't want to join Starfleet, which surprised Ben at first. And after listening to Jake explain he never wanted to join, he was fully supportive and simply told Jake that he just wanted him to find something he loved doing and to do the best you can at it. Another great example: "NOR THE BATTLE TO THE STRONG". After reading Jake's story he wrote about what happened on Ajilon Prime, he told Jake that anyone who's been in combat can see himself in this, and 'it takes courage to look inside yourself, and even more courage to write about it so that others can see. I'm proud of you." Ben was an understanding and supportive father... those are two of the best traits a parent can have. The only father figure I had was my grandfather, and he was also understanding and supportive. Watching Sisko as a teenager, I felt like I had two father figures... Sisko and my grandfather.
And at the end of the day, Sisko just shows us he is a man just trying his best in a universe that can be cruel and challenges you.
In a nutshell, those are the reasons why he is so relatable to me.