Oh, man...I knew Gul Karama was going to be hateful, but to actually see it firsthand was terrible. And indeed--Gul Karama is the last person who should be calling other people out on their sexual habits, considering that rape was one of his. Now...as hard as Kapoor's question was on her husband-to-be, I think it had to be asked. Even on Earth, the cycle of abuse can be a tough thing to break, if that's what you consider normal. As to raising the children as Cardassians...I hope that while Cardassian will be their first language and they'll go to Cardassian schools, they will be given some way to appreciate their mother's heritage too.