You referenced MASH so you get a like but that doesn't really answer my question. But I appreciate it anyway!
I'm afraid I don't have a better answer than that. I truly think we just look for and value different things in fiction.
In real life, I'm not all about exploring emotions. I'm not emotionally suppressed either. But I don't seek that stuff out.
We have a lot of counselors and psychologists in this group apparently. And my wife actually went through graduate level counselor training years ago as well. One day she had a class where the group was going through a group counseling session involving themselves. So, lots of talking about emotions and stuff. But by the end of it, the class had gotten into a big argument, lots of conflict.
When my wife told me that, I'm like, "Whelp I could've told you that would happen with you all talking about emotions and stuff!"
I survived that crack! She even laughed a little.
But, we're not all looking for or like the same things. A bit of it is fine with me. I love the conflict between McCoy and Spock in TOS.
Same, absolutely same here. Going back to MASH these were not always good people. These were damaged, broken, struggling people who recognized their weaknesses and tried to move past them in an impossible situation. I would not consider Hawkeye aspirational or Houlihan aspirational but both have huge character growth that is so fun to watch unpack over the course of the show.
I don't know. I'd say Hawkeye, Trapper, and Blake were all good people. I'd be hard pressed to say how they weren't. But they weren't perfect.
I would definitely consider Hawkeye to be aspirational. He's a pacifist in an impossible situation. But he persists in his own fight against it. He always finds a way to insert his pacifism, such as treating enemy combatants as equal to our own. And various other things like that. Hawkeye fretted over his role of "weapons repair" being a surgeon and the impossible situation of needing to heal people who would then go on to kill and be killed. Radar once warned that Hawkeye would break down eventually due to fighting the war in his own ways, and he did. I find that aspirational at least.
I don't know. Maybe's it's a distinction without a difference or my little J side coming out that I can't quite wrap my mind around this idea of fictional characters being damaged so that I don't want to watch.
ETA: Nowhere does anyone need to have an answer. This may be as much my verbalizing and organizing my thoughts as anything else.
I don't mind damaged characters. There's just a certain level of melodrama that's too much for me. I might just have a low threshold?
And, I'm not even saying that I'm disliking Picard this season because of it. I've actually mostly enjoyed it. However, those specific moments we've been discussing pass my threshold! And, even then, I'll admit that it will probably all work out enjoyably in the end. Seems inevitable that they'll work things out.
I'm definitely looking forward to the rest of the season!