Oh yes. I
am serious, and btw, the word you are looking for is "fraternization," and those rules don't exist in Star Trek. . . see "Balance of Terror" where Kirk is officiating at a wedding between two crew members, Angela Martine and Robert Tomlinson; see Scotty and Mira Romaine in "The Lights of Zetar," see Riker and Troi, or Worf and Troi in STTNG, or Worf and Dax in DS9; etc. . . .so the "no-fraternity rules" is a completely BS argument.
Promotion? Oh you mean the scene where Spock wants to avoid the "appearance of favoritism" -- meaning someone, somewhere at the Academy obviously already knows about their relationship -- and Uhura calmly lists her accomplishments as the best Xenolinguist in the Academy and how hard she worked for a place on the Enterprise, which she would have gotten if someone who was not trying to avoid the "appearance of favoritism" had been making the assignments? That scene? That's a duty assigment, not a promotion. Spock calls her a lieutenant in that scene. . . .
So, basically, you ignore all of the things that Uhura
actually does in the movies, which others have gone through them time and again, in thread after thread, and the fact that she has "Sex. Friendships. Fears. Goals," because you see her as defined by her relationship with Spock. Nevermind the fact that as a secondary character, she is, by definition, defined by her relationships to the main characters. . .
Oooookay. . . umhmmmmmm. . . .
~FS