Anakin's issues predated his marriage, so that's not really fair. It just seems to me that denying an essential element of humanity (not necessarily the fucking, I'm just talking about emotional connections) strikes me as not a very good idea.
First off: yes, Anakin's flouting of the prohibition on personal attachments is symptomatic, not causative. However, I was responding to the notion that part of the problem with the Jedi was said prohibitions. Given that the only person to be unable to deal with that turned evil, while the other nine thousand, nine hundred and ninety nine (give or take) managed not to murder children for personal gain...well it's just not an argument that holds a lot of water.
Plus since as you say, his issues predated his marriage, the notion that the problem was cause by the need to hide his relationship is equally aquatically unsound.
Secondly: an emotional connection is not the same thing as a personal attachment. The former is just the natural result of being a social being. The latter however involves dividing your commitments. "Jedi" isn't a 9-5 job, a hobby or something you do only when it suits you, or when it is not an inconvenience. It's a life of committed service all by itself.
Jedi couldn't selflessly dedicate themselves to the greater good if they also have to worry about spouses and offspring and all the associated complications. They'd be compromised and it'd only be a matter of time before they ran into a conflict of interest or begin to act selfishly to protect or benefit those they were attached to. Indeed, exactly this happens with Padme on more than one occasion.
But again, for what feels like the 53rd time: If Anakin, or another other Jedi wanted to marry or whatever, the council wouldn't stop them...they'd just expel them from the Order. In short: they have a choice.
This is explicitly spelled out in both AotC when Padme falls from the gunship and in TCW with Kenobi & Satine. He flat out said he would have left the Order for her had she asked it of him. He had a choice as did Anakin; Obi-Wan chose the Order over Satine as she chose her duty over Kenobi...Anakin however didn't choose Padme, he chose himself.