At this point in the original timeline, Starfleet has no idea the Romulans and Vulcans are related. And either the Vulcans don't know, or some do and aren't saying.
So in the JJ timeline - is the jig up? Didn't the writers crop Nero's ears specifically for the purpose of keeping the secret plausible? (And what was the in-story explanation for his ears? I don't recall that they were ever mentioned.) Plus, pointy ears are hardly unique to Vulcans among alien species so the Romulans really didn't look so Vulcan-like that anyone would immediately see the connection, that is, if they noticed anyone's ears while they were all busy fighting for their lives.
But Uhura did note the similarities between Vulcan and Romulan languages. Is that confirmation that the secret has long since been exposed (perhaps because of the original attack on the day Kirk was born)?
So in the JJ timeline - is the jig up? Didn't the writers crop Nero's ears specifically for the purpose of keeping the secret plausible? (And what was the in-story explanation for his ears? I don't recall that they were ever mentioned.) Plus, pointy ears are hardly unique to Vulcans among alien species so the Romulans really didn't look so Vulcan-like that anyone would immediately see the connection, that is, if they noticed anyone's ears while they were all busy fighting for their lives.
But Uhura did note the similarities between Vulcan and Romulan languages. Is that confirmation that the secret has long since been exposed (perhaps because of the original attack on the day Kirk was born)?