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SF LGBT Pride Day

^He was adorable, and a wonderful person, too. :) And this thread isn't bad...most everyone has given intelligent and positive input.

Also, because he did like to dress in drag, here's my brother, posing:
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I go to New York City a lot, and I kind of like parades. So if I find out there is one going on when I'm in the city - which is hard to do, since I don't get the NYC papers and so there's no way for me to find out if there even IS a parade unless I'm lucky enough to stumble across one! - I almost always go. Even though I have never been to a parade for which I had anything to do with the group in it, and probably never will (since I am not a member of any group that does parades), I'll go anyway, if the weather is good and I have nothing better to do. Which is weird because I don't really like crowds...

Never been to a LGBT parade, though. I don't know if I'd have the guts to go. Some of the stranger stuff might indeed make me uncomfortable. (Especially since I always vacation alone.) It's probably supposed to do exactly that. And so that's probably the best reason why I *should* go.

And just in case I haven't dug myself in deep enough yet: One of my favorite places to eat in NYC is right in the middle of Greenwich Village - about a block from the Christopher St. subway stop - and I'd been going there for years before I had any idea what was so special about this area of the city. :alienblush:
 
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Toronto Pride is this coming weekend. I'm looking forward to going downtown for at least part of it.

I'm ashamed to say that our mayor has, once again, declined to participate in any way. For the last several years, a rainbow flag-raising has taken place in the square outside of City Hall, and the mayor has always participated - until this mayor came along. He also declines to come to the parade, saying that it's more important to him to go up to his family's cottage north of Toronto on that weekend. An entire week's worth of events, and he can't be bothered to attend a single one? I can hardly wait until the next election.

Anyway... here's a picture that summarizes what Toronto Pride is like, and how the rest of the city tends to view it:

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Yes, that's an actual Toronto policeman participating in a watergun fight along the parade route. :)
 
^ Oakland Pride is this coming September, so I guess I still have a chance to watch or partake in my area. ;)

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tsq, your brother's photo reminds me of a young woman I once met somewhere. Cute picture.

P. S. I can't seem to take my eyes off of one of your inspirational pics, i.e., the guy wearing the white boxer briefs. :D
 
I think the cultural intolerance and taboos that still follow around homosexuality are the reasons for many gay men (in particular) being very "loud" about their sexuality. It's not exactly confined to gay men though, many heterosexual men are known for being extremely vocal about their sexual experience, appetites and opinions. Even a guy dressed in drag and doing an impression of a female can be extremely lewd and sexually active.

So I guess you could say that rather than percieving a gay man as feminine, you should percieve a gay/bi man as being just as perverse and sexually bold as a straight man - the only difference being their respective tastes in gender.
 
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Yes, that's an actual Toronto policeman participating in a watergun fight along the parade route. :)
I LOVE this! That will definitely go in my faith in humanity thread!
tsq, your brother's photo reminds me of a young woman I once met somewhere. Cute picture.
He looked just like my mom when she was young. Maybe you met my mother? ;)
P. S. I can't seem to take my eyes off of one of your inspirational pics, i.e., the guy wearing the white boxer briefs. :D
hehehe...once you're done being affected by the humanity you can't help but be affected by the booty!
 
Never been to a LGBT parade, though. I don't know if I'd have the guts to go. Some of the stranger stuff might indeed make me uncomfortable. (Especially since I always vacation alone.) It's probably supposed to do exactly that. And so that's probably the best reason why I *should* go.

It doesn't really take any guts. ;)
 
Never been to a LGBT parade, though. I don't know if I'd have the guts to go. Some of the stranger stuff might indeed make me uncomfortable. (Especially since I always vacation alone.) It's probably supposed to do exactly that. And so that's probably the best reason why I *should* go.

It doesn't really take any guts. ;)

I dunno...those queers can be pretty scary, what with their flowery leis:

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And smartphones!
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And... canes...
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I'm gay and I don't go anymore. They've become the gay equivalent of a NASCAR event. They aren't doing anything in my state to turn back Amendment One, and I really don't feel like hearing or seeing another shouting match between the usual suspects. I don't mind wandering the market areas at Pride in Atlanta, but the parades really don't do anything for us.
 
^ I'm not the protesting type, that's all.

Like I said, I do like parades, so I might go to one of these things if I happened to walk by one. But if it gets political, forget it.
 
You are aware of the fact that you don't have to participate in the parade/march itself, right? Many people just stand on the sides to watch the spectacle. (That's also true of demonstrations, by the way.)
 
You are aware of the fact that you don't have to participate in the parade/march itself, right? Many people just stand on the sides to watch the spectacle.

Of course. I've never actually participated in any parade, nor did I think I'd have to here.

(That's also true of demonstrations, by the way.)

The difference is, parades are fun to watch...demonstrations/protests are not.
 
These things generally don't get political, do they?

Meaning: It's a parade, not a protest march....right?

There was a day, for gays, when marching was political. I was there. In theory, they are supposed to be both a display of the community and make a political statement (for they traditionally end with a rally, for example, in Piedmont Park in Atlanta at one time, that took on any number of political issues. Frequently there were presentations and speakers; in some towns, there were debates the week before).

Also, there was a day when dancing was political -that was slightly before my time. To get the gist of what I'm talking about, I recommend finding the movie Stonewall.

I feel like a lot of folks in our community have lost touch with that. The more we become part of the mainstream, the more they become either displays of the local neighborhood association or social group (whoohoo East Atlanta Gayborhood Association; Lipstick Lesbian Mallwalkers, and so on!) and walking adverts for local gay bars. Now, in larger cities or smaller ones with a larger gay population this can work - my best friend (the dj in my signature) is also the owner of an Optometry Practice in Long Beach, CA. He sometimes uses the march to advertise his services - this year, he rode in the parade in LB using his music to lead a group of flaggers.

Then there's the other extreme - you know, with the local BDSM float that is chugging black smoke and breaks down in front of First Baptist Church (true story - that happened in 1996 in Atlanta on Sunday around noon just as church let out - it was funny) and the go-boys not far out, with the local Crystal Meth Anonymous group who we all know has collectively decided to take a weekend holiday just to "keep up their energy" for the march.

With all that is going on, at least right now where I live (NC where we're facing the results of Amendment One right now), where our communities are so fragmented across our state - I'm not sure the parade idea really works that well. In cities where the paragraph above happens, that just gives our opponents cannon fodder, and in the paragraph before, it's kinda boring, although the market (where all that comes together with vendors and groups that present but don't march, and there are speakers and stuff) is kinda fun. I guess what I'm saying is I think, unless we need to protest something, I'd rather go to a festival of some kind, not a parade.
 
The difference is, parades are fun to watch...demonstrations/protests are not.
They are a democratic political act (voting alone does not sustain a democracy) and not meant to entertain anybody.


There was a day, for gays, when marching was political. I was there. In theory, they are supposed to be both a display of the community and make a political statement (for they traditionally end with a rally, for example, in Piedmont Park in Atlanta at one time, that took on any number of political issues. Frequently there were presentations and speakers; in some towns, there were debates the week before).
It's like with the hippies back in the sixties. I believe that this descend from politics proper into hedonism is a structural problem of the New Left.
 
The difference is, parades are fun to watch...demonstrations/protests are not.
They are a democratic political act (voting alone does not sustain a democracy) and not meant to entertain anybody.

Exactly. Protests/demonstrations aren't supposed to entertain. Parades ARE. So I would go to the latter, but not the former.

Although I would make an exception for Lipstick Lesbian Mallwalkers. :D
 
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