Sex offer from student

[Tim]

I'm not a teacher but I turned down an offer of non-commital, one-time sex with someone probably 15 yrs younger than me last week. I guess younger women like married guys.

RAMA

I forgot to mention I was working at the time....and yes we were both sober.

RAMA

Or they like your muscled body and sense of confidence, honeybuns.

 

[Super Grover]

^heh, i'm the only man in my office, I was told that i'm here as a token (what they DON'T know is that my aunt has a say in who is allowed into the labs, and I have a feeling that after this project is finished, that this firm won't be getting any repeat buisness from them) that I shouldn't even consider advancement, and that if I even looked at anyone funny there would be hell to pay

Why exactly isn't the company you work for handing over every penny it makes to you after you won your discrimination case against them ?

can't prove any of it with hard evidence

You should wear a wire man.

 

[Super Grover]

Because there are some girls on this world who are vicious, evil creatures, and will start to haunt you, threatening to report you in if you don't do their bidding!

Unfortunately... that's not a joke

It's why you should go out of your way to insulate yourself from such accusations. Pretend to be gay - extremely gay. Get a reverse beard, even. set it up so that no one would possibly suspect that you were heterosexual, and thus any sexual harassment claim would be laughed off.
This also has the advantage that women will be more comfortable around you and treat you as a friend. Some of them might even lament to you that all of the good men, such as yourself, as gay. You can then slowly and gently nudge them into the idea that they might be able to convert you, if they were good enough in bed.
"Okay , I'll give it a try just once, you can say." And they'll be putting enough effort into it to make things great.

Either that, or go with the refuge in audacity and sexually harass everyone, without exception, so openly, flagrantly, shamelessly, and flamboyantly that no one can possibly blame you for it. If you do it right, everyone would just accept it as a personality quirk, an eccentricity, part of your style, and everyone will love you all the more for it. It'll make them laugh and smile.

That seems like a lot more trouble than its worth.

 

[Sephiroth]

Why exactly isn't the company you work for handing over every penny it makes to you after you won your discrimination case against them ?

can't prove any of it with hard evidence

You should wear a wire man.

it isn't worth the bother, Maverick is ready for me now, the project I am working on is almost over, so I'm gonna quit, give my Aunt a call and get this place black-listed from Los Alamos Natn'l labs, and go eat sopapillas

 

[CorporalClegg]

and go eat sopapillas

Hey! Can I come?!

And who the hell do you work for? I want to know so I can avoid any and all contact with them.

 

[Sephiroth]

well, to ACTUALLY come in contact with where I work, you have to go way out of your way from anywhere, It's just a relatively new (and soon to be out of buisness) engineering firm

 

[msbae]

I teach several freshman music classes at a large university. Earlier this week, one of the girls in a class came to my office to discuss her grade. She said, word for word, "Professor, I really want an A in your class. I'll do anything you want for it."

I replied: "Really? Anything? Absolutely anything?"

Her: "Yes, anything you want me to do."

Me: "Sounds great. I'd like you to study."

Her: "Oh." She gave me a nasty look and wandered out.

That's a good way to handle the situation. Here's how I would have done it...

Student: "Professor, I really want an A in your class. I'll do anything you want for it."

Me: "Really?"

Student: "Yes, anything you want me to do."

Me: "Good. go home and do your homework like everyone else. Then, you just might get the grade you want."

Student: "Oh. Professor msbae, I..."

Me: "Everything that needs to be said has been said. You will never breathe a word of this conversation to anyone else for as long as you live and I will be reporting this to the Dean later today. Also, since this is a music class, I suggest you look up a Judas Priest song called 'Private Property' on the web. The lyrics speak volumes about just this kind of situation. Get out."

After that, I would immediately pick up the phone and call the Dean. Any delay might give her the time to run to the Dean, campus cops, et al. and tell them a lie or two.

I know the way I'd handle it is harsh but, it does make damn sure that word gets around that I can't be seduced/bought/whatever. Having a reputation for unflappable integrity (and a little ruthlessness) can be a good thing for a professor. It encourages the students to study harder and (hopefully) do better.

 

[jkladis]

Just checking on thread. Has the sex been had yet? kthx!

 

[All Seeing Eye]

I want a picture of this so called student that made the offer. I suggest hiding a digital camera behind a hole punch or something and videoing her.

 

[Sledder]

I want a picture of this so called student that made the offer. I suggest hiding a digital camera behind a hole punch or something and videoing her.

Agreed, this is much needed!

 

[CorporalClegg]

Or just slip us the link to her Facebook page. You know she has one.

 

[msbae]

Or MySpace. Don't forget about how Sluts love MySpace.

 

[Hermiod]

^heh, i'm the only man in my office, I was told that i'm here as a token (what they DON'T know is that my aunt has a say in who is allowed into the labs, and I have a feeling that after this project is finished, that this firm won't be getting any repeat buisness from them) that I shouldn't even consider advancement, and that if I even looked at anyone funny there would be hell to pay

Why exactly isn't the company you work for handing over every penny it makes to you after you won your discrimination case against them ?

can't prove any of it with hard evidence

Since when has evidence had anything to do with sexual harrassment cases ?

 

[Sephiroth]

if I went through with it it would be a "he said" "THEY said" kinda thing, it's over with, the firm is blacklisted, they will fold up in 3 or 4 months

 

[Hermiod]

if I went through with it it would be a "he said" "THEY said" kinda thing, it's over with, the firm is blacklisted, they will fold up in 3 or 4 months

Blacklisted ? For what ?