A Hamilton novel is half a lifetime well spentCheck out Peter Hamilton's stuff, starting with The Reality Dysfunction. Sounds like it might be right up your alley.
. I'd recommend a one-off like The Nano Flower to get a taste for his style before moving on to one of the main courses. The Pandora's Star / Judas Unchained duology is huge and multi-faceted, and has one of the best-conceived alien menaces in fiction, imho.Oh, and then there's the bible - Heinlein's Stranger In A Strange Land, a blindingly obvious choice. It's basically human life through the lens of a man raised by Martians, a conceit that was basically just an excuse for the author to let rip with his thoughts and observations on the human condition. Stone-cold classic.