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Random acts of kindness met with resistance, suspicion.

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The Register-Guard (Oregon) article.


Idealists brave generous dose of cynicism

By Bob Welch
Register-Guard columnist


All they wanted to do was change the world, one random act of kindness at a time. Instead, they were met with furrowed brows, questioned by Eugene police and ousted by Valley River Center security officers.

“People can’t accept the fact that there are other people who just want to be nice,” says Sheldon High School senior Kelsey Hertel, who founded the school’s new Random Acts of Kindness Club. “People don’t trust each other. They think everyone’s out to get them.”

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They decided Random Act 2 would be offering free leaf-raking in neighborhoods near Sheldon: seven girls, one guy, eight rakes.

Then, unexpected resistance: “When we told one lady what we wanted to do,” Hertel says, “she said, ‘Go do your random acts of kindness somewhere else.’ ”

Another woman thought the group was trying to burglarize her house. “We said, ‘No, we’re from the Random Acts of Kindness Club; we just want to rake your leaves.’ ”

The woman wasn’t convinced. She called the police, whose log for the 11:12 a.m. report is headed, “Suspicious Subject(s).” The police arrived and interviewed the “suspicious subjects” but made no arrests.

Random Act 3 unfolded at Valley River Center on “Black Friday,” the busiest shopping day of the year. About two dozen students handed out cards saying things like “Have a nice day” and “You’re awesome.” (Chocolate mints included.) Shoppers were encouraged to take another card to give to someone else. “People’s faces just lit up,” Hertel says. “They’re, like, ‘Wow, this is awesome!’ ”

Until security guards showed up, that is. The group was given the boot under the mall’s no-solicitation regulation, Hertel says. But, Kelsey argued, we’re not taking, we’re giving. Sorry.

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I too would be freaked out if eight strange people showed up in my garden to "rake my leaves". I completely understand that the one woman called the police, better safe than sorry.
 
I too would be freaked out if eight strange people showed up in my garden to "rake my leaves". I completely understand that the one woman called the police, better safe than sorry.

Yeah...just like when those Boy Scouts come and take our Christmas tree for us around the end of December I totally suspect them of trying to pull one on us. :rolleyes:

Stuff like this makes me remember why I hate people.* That, and working retail.






*Limited Exceptions Apply
 
They decided Random Act 2 would be offering free leaf-raking in neighborhoods near Sheldon: seven girls, one guy, eight rakes.

I'd trust a bunch of girls to be doing something goofy like this. If there were any more dudes than that in a bunch of teenagers coming onto my lawn, out comes the shotgun.
 
“People can’t accept the fact that there are other people who just want to be nice,” says Sheldon High School senior Kelsey Hertel, who founded the school’s new Random Acts of Kindness Club. “People don’t trust each other. They think everyone’s out to get them.”

Welcome to my world. :(

J.
 
You can never be too sure of people.


This drunk homeless guy on the beach cozied up next to a family, making them uncomfortable, and talking to them while they were there.

Then another day another homless guy followed one family to their car and started helping them put things in. Been me I would have told the guy to back off, and then call the police.
 
At least the kids learned a valuable lesson about the real world. If somethings worth doing, its worth doing for money. Also that people in general suck and don't really deserve kindness.
 
I could understand being mildly suspicious if a bunch of teenagers just randomly showed up on your lawn without telling you first (not call the cops suspicious, I'd just ask them what's going on), but once they informed you of what's up it's kind of weird calling the cops or telling them to get lost. If they want to burglarize your house they probably could have done it when you opened the door to speak to them in the first place.
 
Yeah this sort of thing has happened to me before, the tramp who begs near the train station where I worked, swore at me after I dropped some change in his collection bag and then proceeded to abuse me even more. I always think twice about giving money to beggars now.
 
Wow, this is a really great way to rob houses, actually.

1) Do the whole block's yards for free.

2) When you come to a house with no one home, have 1 of the 8 go inside (who'd notice 1 out of 8 missing for a minute?)

3) Repeat this up the street until you see the first victims come home, then scram.

People are saying the woman shouldn't have called the police after she talked to them and they didn't rob her. Well, duh, they wouldn't rob HER if this was the plan. They'd rob her neighbor who wasn't home.
 
Eh, I stopped at McDonald's last night on my way home from Chicago. Haggard from the drive and a problem with my car, I must have conveyed a foul mood. The young lady behind the counter was extra-friendly. She really struck me as "I'm not normally this personable with customers, but you seem to need it."

When she brought my order over to me at the soda machine, turned to walk back to the counter, turned back and said, "Hey... Merry Christmas," her random act of kindness kinda made my night and made the rest of the drive bearable.

So, screw these people who are uptight about random acts of kindness.
 
“People can’t accept the fact that there are other people who just want to be nice,” says Sheldon High School senior Kelsey Hertel, who founded the school’s new Random Acts of Kindness Club.
I've noticed that. Fuck 'em. They'll take my niceness and like it. :cool:
 
At least the kids learned a valuable lesson about the real world. If somethings worth doing, its worth doing for money. Also that people in general suck and don't really deserve kindness.

That may be true but are you really going to give them the control over what type of person you want to be? How you treat others is up to you and if sometimes someone is rude when you are kind you need to file that under "not my drama".
 
Yeah this sort of thing has happened to me before, the tramp who begs near the train station where I worked, swore at me after I dropped some change in his collection bag and then proceeded to abuse me even more. I always think twice about giving money to beggars now.
I knew someone who tried to give a slice of pizza to a homeless woman at DuPont Circle in Washington, DC. But all she did was yell back.
 
There have been stories in my area about homeless people getting offered food where they throw it back at the giver because they want money instead.
 
Evil people have ruined it for decent folks. There have been so many crooks out there that when a decent person actually decides to do something they are looked upon with suspicion.

I wouldnt trust a group of kids who offered to rake my yard for free either and I hate raking leaves.

If I see someone stopped by the side of the road with car trouble my first thought is, "They are probably faking it hoping somebody will stop so they can kill them."

Heck, I dont even totally trust my pastor. He is a great guy and preacher, but sometimes I think about how he preaches and see the joy on other people's faces from his wonderful messages and I start thinking, "This guy could be another Jim Jones. I aint drinking any kool aid in this church."
 
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