If the Romulan Time line shenanigans is a load of dren, and old Spock is telling someone about Kirk I could see something like:
"I first heard the name James Kirk when I was at the academy. I found the fact that a human had beaten the no win scenario intriguing"
kobayashi maru flash back sequence
"But I never met him until he assumed command of the Enterprise"
Change of command ceremony on Enterprise hanger deck with Pike handing command over to Kirk
Then the role might be quite a small one.
"I first heard the name James Kirk when I was at the academy. I found the fact that a human had beaten the no win scenario intriguing"
kobayashi maru flash back sequence
"But I never met him until he assumed command of the Enterprise"
Change of command ceremony on Enterprise hanger deck with Pike handing command over to Kirk
Then the role might be quite a small one.