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My Brain Tumor

If I was suddenly unable to drive, I would have to quit my job because there is literally no other way for me to get there. There is no public transportation, and if I walked, it would probably take me about 1.5 hours to get there. So I can definitely get where Trekker is coming from.
 
I'm going to drive only "must need to" situations: to work and occasionaly to the store. Neither require me to drive on heavily trafficed roads or highways, at high speeds, or over long distances.

It's simply not practical for me to not drive and have to rely on others to get me somewhere. Keep in mind I had the siezures while under anesthetics and after having brain surgery! I'm on medication for siezures, increased by the surgeon and I've had no siezures -of any kind- in the week since the surgery. I suspect that I'm in the clear. But I will reign in the driving, keep myself as alert as possible and will pull over if I feel and indication of a siezure "coming on." But it's not practical for me to not drive.

This is not a flame, but this is the dumbest thing I have ever heard. Take some advice from those of us who actually know something about this issue. You drive, wreck your car and injure something and you will be in a heap of shit.

But you know better trekker. Carry on.
 
I don't really see the big deal about driving. Heck, a blind man could drive across Kansas and not hit anything. Besides, haven't people flown Federation starships with little bugs in their brains?
 
If I was suddenly unable to drive, I would have to quit my job because there is literally no other way for me to get there. There is no public transportation, and if I walked, it would probably take me about 1.5 hours to get there. So I can definitely get where Trekker is coming from.

And, as I said, the siezures occured under very extreme circumstances. Even the doctor doubts I'll get them again under the medication and said they were likely caused by the anesthetic and the surgery. It's just that because I had them it activates this reccomendation/law/statute, whatever. It's not because I will have them again, it's becuase I had them. The rule doesn't account for the situations unher which they've occured. And, as I said, I've had no siezures in a week.

It's simply not practical for me to not drive. I'd have to inconvicence friends and family to get me around because the public transportation here is abysmal. As I said, I plan to limit my driving, but it's not practical for me to stop driving altogether.

As I discuss this issue with my family and friends my position on this will likely change, but right now it doesn't strike me as reasonable or practical for me to not drive for six months because I had a siezure a week ago after having brain surgery.

It is a delima for me because it is in contrast with what I think is right and what "I want to do." But the hassles involved with relying on others for transportation between now in November is just... ugh. It's like right now, I'm hungry so I need to go out and get dinner. So if I don't drive my options are:

1. Wait for my buddy to get home in 30 minutes and get him to take me somewhere to get food.

2. Walk in area not greatly "pedestrian friendly" and have my food be cold when I get back home. (The walking/distance isn't a huge issue for me.)

3. Call my dad, wait 15 minutes for him to get here, get the food, and have him bring me home. Him being the pestering parent that he is the entire time.

4. Starve.

Again, my position on this will likely change as it is a combat in my mind between morals and needs but at the same time practicality and my views are coming into play. I had a major siezure, something I've never had under normal conditions, a week ago following brain surgery. I don't drive that much anyway so I, personally, right now am not seeing any risks. The doctor himself told me its unlikely I'll have another siezure and it was due to the operation it's just that me having one activates this requirement.

I dunno but, believe me, I'm wrestling with it in my mind but I keep coming back to the fact that if I can't drive for six months I'm virtually crippled or less extravagantly a 14-year-old child who has to get mommy and daddy to take him places. Six months is a long assed time.

But, again, I am struggling with this issue.
 
I therefore suggest that you think about it more. Get advice. Get help and support. Get support from work and family. Reconsider your decision to drive. A brain tumour is not something you have to be bold and brave about.

Never mind the seizure, just having the tumour itself is a reason to contact the DMV and follow your doctor's instructions. Seizures are more likely to happen if you've had one in the past under any circumstances.

Benign or not benign, you don't want someone else to be killed because of your brain tumour affecting your driving. Don't be irresponsible.
 
If I was suddenly unable to drive, I would have to quit my job because there is literally no other way for me to get there. There is no public transportation, and if I walked, it would probably take me about 1.5 hours to get there. So I can definitely get where Trekker is coming from.

And, as I said, the siezures occured under very extreme circumstances. Even the doctor doubts I'll get them again under the medication and said they were likely caused by the anesthetic and the surgery. It's just that because I had them it activates this reccomendation/law/statute, whatever. It's not because I will have them again, it's becuase I had them. The rule doesn't account for the situations unher which they've occured. And, as I said, I've had no siezures in a week.

It's simply not practical for me to not drive. I'd have to inconvicence friends and family to get me around because the public transportation here is abysmal. As I said, I plan to limit my driving, but it's not practical for me to stop driving altogether.

As I discuss this issue with my family and friends my position on this will likely change, but right now it doesn't strike me as reasonable or practical for me to not drive for six months because I had a siezure a week ago after having brain surgery.

It is a delima for me because it is in contrast with what I think is right and what "I want to do." But the hassles involved with relying on others for transportation between now in November is just... ugh. It's like right now, I'm hungry so I need to go out and get dinner. So if I don't drive my options are:

1. Wait for my buddy to get home in 30 minutes and get him to take me somewhere to get food.

2. Walk in area not greatly "pedestrian friendly" and have my food be cold when I get back home. (The walking/distance isn't a huge issue for me.)

3. Call my dad, wait 15 minutes for him to get here, get the food, and have him bring me home. Him being the pestering parent that he is the entire time.

4. Starve.

Again, my position on this will likely change as it is a combat in my mind between morals and needs but at the same time practicality and my views are coming into play. I had a major siezure, something I've never had under normal conditions, a week ago following brain surgery. I don't drive that much anyway so I, personally, right now am not seeing any risks. The doctor himself told me its unlikely I'll have another siezure and it was due to the operation it's just that me having one activates this requirement.

I dunno but, believe me, I'm wrestling with it in my mind but I keep coming back to the fact that if I can't drive for six months I'm virtually crippled or less extravagantly a 14-year-old child who has to get mommy and daddy to take him places. Six months is a long assed time.

But, again, I am struggling with this issue.

You realize that all of this is admissible in court as an admission of your intent to drive despite being warned?
 
I dunno but, believe me, I'm wrestling with it in my mind but I keep coming back to the fact that if I can't drive for six months I'm virtually crippled or less extravagantly a 14-year-old child who has to get mommy and daddy to take him places. Six months is a long assed time.

Trekker, you know I love you and I'm one relieved son of a bitch that your tumour is benign, so don't take this the wrong way...

I have two friends who have epilepsy. They legally have to go two years without a seizure to get their licence's. Both always almost make it, but not quite. All their adult lives, they've never driven. They've had to rely on walking, no matter where they happen to be, biking, cabbing, bussing, relying on friends and annoying parents and other relatives to get where they want to go. I joke that I'm their chauffeur. I'm called all the time for favour drives to job interviews, etc. Their greatest pet peeve in life is never having enjoyed the freedom of having the privilege of a driver's licence.

If I told them you were risking lives or complaining or wrestling with the idea of not having a licence for six months, they'd tell you to go fuck yourself.

Don't buy DVD's and other stuff for awhile and take cabs. Get a bike or an electric scooter or a moped. Walk. Or, swallow your pride and let your dad bitch at you for half an hour while he helps you get food. There are people who have it far worse off.
 
Not sure what more to say, or what can be said to sway the otherside (me or you) to the other's POV.

Just know that it is something I'm struggling with on a moral level and on practicality level. Right now, from my POV, I'd look at not being able to drive as being crippled and under house arrest.

Just know that I am struggling with this issue and it's possible my opinion will change. Neither option makes me happy.
 
Not sure what more to say, or what can be said to sway the otherside (me or you) to the other's POV.

Just know that it is something I'm struggling with on a moral level and on practicality level. Right now, from my POV, I'd look at not being able to drive as being crippled and under house arrest.

Just know that I am struggling with this issue and it's possible my opinion will change. Neither option makes me happy.


I bet my recent bitches about the lack of public transportation in the US, the need for light rail, busses, and the need to abolish the car don't sound so stupid now, do they?
 
^ No worries John... as far as I'm concerned, MORE people should start bitching about that very sad lack.

Trekker - nice to hear that it's benign. :techman: Hope this doesn't inconvenience you much.
 
I am struggling with this issue.

I'm just glad the tumor's benign and you're alive and able to struggle with the issue. the alternatives suck.

I hope you keep on postin' here for a long, long time.

have some nachos...

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1. Wait for my buddy to get home in 30 minutes and get him to take me somewhere to get food.

2. Walk in area not greatly "pedestrian friendly" and have my food be cold when I get back home. (The walking/distance isn't a huge issue for me.)

3. Call my dad, wait 15 minutes for him to get here, get the food, and have him bring me home. Him being the pestering parent that he is the entire time.

4. Starve.

5. Order a pizza.

Congrats on the diagnosis.
 
I'd like to echo what T'Baio said. My wife was unable to drive for several years because she had seizure issues. She still managed to hold jobs and live her life. You only have to inconvenience yourself for six months. Nobody is saying it won't suck, but it can be done, and it's really the only legal and ethical thing to do. I hope you make the right decision. If you don't, I sure as hell hope no one else ends up paying for it.
 
1. Wait for my buddy to get home in 30 minutes and get him to take me somewhere to get food.

2. Walk in area not greatly "pedestrian friendly" and have my food be cold when I get back home. (The walking/distance isn't a huge issue for me.)

3. Call my dad, wait 15 minutes for him to get here, get the food, and have him bring me home. Him being the pestering parent that he is the entire time.

4. Starve.

5. Order a pizza.

6. Make something at home

Congrats on the diagnosis.

Indeed.
 
I also discovered I have Type-O blood.

I wonder if I'm capable (given my medical history and medicines I'm on) of donating blood?
 
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