^ But fantasies can affect a person's real life, I would imagine. You spend enough time fantasising about somebody, it's going to affect how you feel about that person IRL.
And I did say that the computer should let the holodeck program run,
but still notify anybody being simulated in it. If somebody simulates me on a holodeck, that's much more than thoughts. It's actions. I have the right to know, if they do that. Holosimulation of somebody without their consent is an invasion of that person's privacy.
And let's face it, if you are operating a holodeck program and
you actually let people in who are being simulated in that program, you deserve any nasty remarks they give you in return.