There is no non-outraged side. The non-outraged side is outraged--over the outrage. The social-network drama surrounding all this has become the actual entertainment. The "art" in question serves no purpose otherwise.
I do find it sad and strange to hear trek nerds accuse others of being basement dwelling incels, though, considering the history of Trek fandom as filled with misfits. I take it (thanks to JJ and Kurtzman) all current Trek fans are normies who were the cool-kids in school and therefore don't have any understanding or concern for nerd-dom? Or are they just rank hypocrites who want to punch downward?
"Have you ever kissed a girl?"