It gets even crazier in Arkansas. There, it's King-Lee-Jackson day...as in, Stonewall Jackson.
I have to disagree with Starship Polaris on several points.
For one thing, I find it on the same level with ethnic and racial discrimination to stereotype an entire region of the country the way it seems to be acceptable in liberal circles to bash the South. If you spoke that way of the black community or of another country that way, you'd be rightly decried for it--but people seem to think that if it's the South, it's OK. If you think the South has a monopoly on ignorance and racism, think again. I've lived in both places and I can tell you there is only one difference between the two: the North just doesn't openly acknowledge that it has a problem. But it's the same problem in both places.
I also think we run a very serious risk any time we start trying to revise history. We need to fully understand what was going on on both sides during the Civil War or we run the risk of repeating our mistakes. I think TheBrew hits the nail on the head when it comes to Lee in particular.
I don't think vengeance on the part of the Union would have been the right solution--the South got enough punishment as it was in the final parts of the war. And some will argue that Reconstruction has also had permanent and damaging effects on the region that is only now starting to right itself. But had there been even more vengeance, I think it is entirely possible that would've just touched off another conflict the way the Treaty of Versailles sowed the seeds for World War II. Just imagine the havoc devotees of Nathan Bedford Forrest could've wreaked in that kind of environment.
In the end, we have a unified country that, while it does have its problems, will (hopefully) never again go down the road that led to the Civil War. Enforcing ignorance about those days will not help in preserving that fundamental unity that we so need especially in times when dissent is high.