Interesting premises.
1. I don't want to experience death yet... but I'd like to converse with someone who HAS died. Supposedly specially sensitive/aware people can do this. And so it goes, there are more charlatans than the "real thing", unfortunately... but I know someone who had a reading with a medium and she was blown away. She's scientifically minded and she can sense when people are lying. This medium was able to dredge up things that there's no way she could have known, or deduced from the brief meeting beforehand. I'd really like to know if we end up completely dissipated, or if our "life force" somehow goes on... and if indeed, we can do things to help prepare for it. Meaning, promoting the opportunity to have a strong or weak energy signature (powerful versus practically inert spirits). I'd like to continue... even though I've been dead far longer than I've been alive, I don't want to go back!!
2. Experiencing what it would be like as a woman is kind of ambiguous. Because personal characteristics - race, perceived beauty, age, etc., would make a world of difference. I used to work with a black woman who was overweight. Usually she and I would be with a group of coworkers for lunch. One day the others weren't around. It was just her and me. And she asked me if I wanted to grab a bite to eat. I said sure, and we went out. We went to a sit-down Indian restaurant. And... it was painfully obvious to me that other customers in the restaurant were giving my lunch companion curious looks. It wasn't just an initial thing upon being noticed entering the restaurant. She was getting looks periodically throughout the meal. This was in the late 1990's... in Connecticut. We never talked about it, but I could tell she was aware of the periodic looks... and I felt really badly for her. I didn't want to make a scene and speak up. But in retrospect, I should have trusted my gut and just asked her if she wanted to eat somewhere else moments after we sat down. If I had a choice as to what woman I could be for a while, I'd probably stick with my own ethnicity/race, and probably younger... and I wouldn't mind being modestly attractive.
For a brief period of time I had a friendship with a very beautiful blonde woman. She was the most down to Earth and unpretentious attractive woman I'd ever met. She took very good care of herself, but she wasn't obsessed with what people thought of her. She was in a romantic relationship and the guy she was seeing was a very successful, attractive guy, so she was happy and not looking. I was fortunately able to have a conversation with her about sexual attraction, and how her life was in dealing with men. And she really opened up. She's not the kind of person to "doll-up", and she was pretty conservative, but a few times she tried out what it would like to be a "bombshell." She didn't dress like a slut or a prostitute, but she dressed very nicely, in high heels, luscious red lipstick, dress with tasteful low cut, moderately high hem, etc. And then she visited a few places with different crowd levels. Overall, she said that the attention she got from men was overwhelming and demeaning. She found it shocking how there were so many men who had the audacity to think they would be attractive to her, or she experienced overt sexism laced with latent hostility (men who knew they'd never have her, so they acted really chauvinistic and lewd). Apparently some women crave attention from men, even if it's overtly sexual in nature. I wouldn't want to have that kind of appearance. Nice looking, but definitely understated.
Sexually speaking, women are supposed to have more erogenous zones and are able to experience multiple orgasms much more easily than men. I'm curious to know how that would feel. But it comes with a price... on a monthly basis. Some women get lucky and have fairly easy menstruation, and some women have a terrible time of it (cramps, frequent changing, etc). Would I want to experience having the body of a woman? I don't think so. Because I can't relate... being a man, I have absolutely no interest in other men and wouldn't want to be sexually entangled with one. Of course, flipped to the other sex, I might feel differently.
