I'm not so generous. I think it's the other way around. The only way Picard (and company) don't come across as monsters is if the Boraalans live and when asked Picard says "Hey, nobody WANTS this."
Heh, does he really say "OUR plan"?
I remember Picard's general demeanor throughout the entire thing was being annoyed.
Picard's reaction to Worf's brother was akin to someone who rolls their eyes because the person is making a bad situation worse. And once Nikolai forces the situation and puts them in the position of having to do something my take is that Picard goes along with making the best of a situation he didn't agree with from the start.
I mean once Vorin is out of the Holodeck, what else can you do but hope you can "bridge the gap" and make a connection with some poor soul that doesn't understand what's happening and in the end felt he had no choice but to kill himself?
The two lines before those cited are important.
CRUSHER: He would have died even if we hadn't interfered.
PICARD: But he wouldn't have died alone and afraid.
OTOH, what then is the responsibility to the post-warp societies that get into those same kind of troubles? Someone jumps in a warp capable shuttle and shows up on Earth and says "Without your help we're doooooomed! And we have warp drive so you can interfere all the live long day!"
I know it's the Kelvin Universe, but isn't that exactly what happens in
Star Trek Beyond?
Some alien comes from the other side of an anomaly, begs for help, and Starfleet sends the Enterprise in to help. It's a trap, but if it wasn't Starfleet was ready to assist.
They cite the Prime Directive when declining to take sides in the Klingon Civil War. "Dear Doctor" is pre-Prime Directive but ends with Archer declining to help.
They do, but did the Federation really not take sides?
I mean they don't actively fight for a certain side, but Picard does coordinate with Gowron to launch the decisive attack in the Civil War in order to expose the Romulan involvement with the Duras faction.