Going off of what
Temis said, I am not a woman, but apparently I like the sorts of games women do.
I mean this in the sense that I am not a big fan of games where the focus is on winning. I like open-ended games, what they call "sandbox" games. Some sandbox games do have win scenarios, but the balanced ones don't punish you for not trying to beat it.
When people say they like "casual" games it doesn't mean they like games that are easy or lack depth. The
Sims games seem to qualify as casual, don't really have specific win conditions, and yet are very replayable because they're so open-ended and have so many options.
And I'm not saying people should make
Sims clones. There's no magic formula to making a good sandbox game, except that the player should be free to do more or less as they please and not be punished for it--at least, not severely. The
Grand Theft Auto games certainly punished you, but not to a great extent. You didn't have a limited number of lives or anything. You could run around, explore, find all the secrets, drive all the cars, do whatever.
There's just a shortage of games like that which happen to be interesting and able to hold a person's attention. The last game I found like that on a console was
Animal Crossing on the DS.
Personally, I think MMO games would have more appeal if they weren't so goal-oriented. I disliked EQ and WoW because the focus was always on leveling up, solving this quest, etc. I still go back and play
Morrowind because there was so much you could do that didn't involve any quests at all, but just exploring and seeing what was out there (and yeah, trying not to get killed because you wandered into a high-level monster zone).
To put it simply, I'm pretty dissatisfied with most games anymore and find myself going back to perennial favorites. I enjoy games where I feel like I am creating or discovering something. I'm just not that into games where I feel like I must
accomplish specific things. I get enough of that in real life. It feels too much like busy work.
I don't deny that lots of people enjoy button-mashing games and fast action "hardcore" titles. It's just not something that appeals to me anymore.