Doesn't Rikers bias (and the writer's) about holograms being fictional characters have just as much to do with it?I love your idea, but to me I still feel this is not about marriage rights but rather about her being a fictional character.
Look, feel free to come up with ways to justify your belief. I don't care. All I'm saying is that your premise is wrong. "Future Imperfect" does not have a plothole because the episode clearly shows that basing Min on Minuet was a mistake and the alien boy did not have foreknowledge of the future.
My only belief was that given the available evidence, discovering that he was married to Minuet was not sufficient proof that all of reality is an illusion. He could have asked "Wait I met her on the holodeck, how is that possible?" instead of making up his own conclusions about reality.