I think today's feminists are too quick to interpret things through the lens of gender. Men famously let their romantic feelings get the better of them, and always have.
Goethe's novel The Sorrows of Young Werther set off a wave of romantic suicides by love-sick young men. Their systems crashed, you might say, when the agonies of love destroyed them. There's nothing specifically feminine about it, and no need for feminists to feel insulted by a story like "Requiem for Methuselah."
I agree, you could also say Romeo Montague suffered it as well.