I've happened to have just finished reading that story, and in all honesty, while I like Dax, that reasoning seemed very out of the blue. It seemed more like an arbitary decsion had been taken to end that relationship between the two characters rather than because it occured naturally.
Exactly. Frankly, The
Voyages of Imagination article on this story has Mike and Andy claim that they had intended to "explore" exactly what the Ezri-Bashir relationship was based on...and they expected fans to simultaneously love
and hate the "resolution".
While, as I said before, I didn't read the tale yet, this still strikes me as "Wha-where did
THAT come from?"
Suddenly she is bothered by the fact he saw Jadzia in her eyes many books ago (one of the avatar ones I think?) and even implies it was his fault in that he caused that to happen, which is not how I remember reading that instance, as Bashir if I recall, was surprised and upset by it.
Yup. Ezri had conjured her up, because
she was at the time exploring her past hosts, and
she was remembering Jadzia taking the bottom bunk in Bashir's
Defiant quarters. Also, Bashir didn't just
see Jadzia in Ezri's eyes--Ezri briefly
spoke in Jadzia's voice!
When Bashir expressed concerns about bringing another personality into the room, Ezri got
defensive, and tried to
rebuke him for not "accepting" Dax's other personalities.
Whatever Ezri's reasons for the break-up were...It wasn't because of Bashir's "nostalgia" for Jadzia.
So...I guess either Ezri's been so shook up by the events of
Unjoined that it's affected her judgement.
Or...it's something else she's not telling him.
I brought up
Tomorrow Never Dies before. Might as well do it again. In that film, it's established that Bond had abruptly broke up with Paris some years ago. When she confronts him about the abrubtness, he at first shrugs it off with, "something came up..."
In a later scene, Paris and Bond face their feelings like so:
Paris asks, "What happened James? Did I get too close...too close for comfort?"
Bond stares at her for a while, and then his lip quivers, and he whispers (as if the word's being forced out of him), "
Yes...."
I wonder if that was
Ezri's reason, too...did they get too close...too soon?