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Does anyone else live like a King for a couple of days then a pauper for the rest of the month...

Some people have a lavish lifestyle because they enjoy it (addiction to natural opioid neurotransmitters such as endorphins, enkephalins and dynorphin); others because they want to impress and be admired (again, probably natural opioid addiction). If one breaks the addiction, one realises that it is all vanity. Several millionaires that I've met have been fearful of penury - hence their miserliness.
 
Some people have a lavish lifestyle because they enjoy it (natural opioid addiction); others because they want to impress and be admired (again, probably natural opioid addiction). If one breaks the addiction, one realises that it is all vanity. Several millionaires that I've met have been fearful of penury - hence their miserliness.
Probably. Though I think if someone knows they may die earlier than a 'natural' life span they simply just throw caution to the wind.
 
I've always wanted to be rich (I was brought up in the 'greed is good' 80s and my parents were really poor) so I guess it's pretending I am for a bit, which is quite sad really.
 
All I want really is a full belly, a warm room, a seat to sit on and a little love in my life, understanding of our place in the world and the human condition, total control over my environment, the unquestioning adoration and loyalty of every single person and beast on the planet, immunity from all harm and disease, immortality, utter control over all the world's resources and the ability to develop my perceptual framework to constantly experience new satisfaction at the extremes of unfettered power and privilege I possess, never growing stale or experiencing ennui.

Failing that I'll settle for a slice of cake.
 
I'm poor and all my money goes to bills so the answer is no. Still if someone wants to send me a TIger I have seen "Walking Dead" so I think I could make it work.

Jason
 
I've been poor for most of my life so that I am used to finding cheap alternatives to expensive things.
I find that if you cook food from fresh ingredients it's not only healthier and tastier but way cheaper than fast food, restaurant food or the semi-finished products you can buy in supermarkets. There are rather a lot of wild plants that are really tasty and cost nothing. I make my own elderflower syrup and rose jelly, and mushroom and berry collecting is a Bavarian tradition that even made it into our constitution (we are constitutionally granted the full right to enter any forest for the purpose of mushrooming or berry collecting; privately owned forests included).
That DIY is cheaper also goes for clothes; e.g. a homemade jeans fits better and costs 1/3 of a store bought one. And a quilted bedspread made of old clothes is warm, pretty, unique and a nice way of recycling.
Not having a car and neither smoking nor drinking saves a lot of money, too.
If you buy a new TV, washing machine or other electric device, try to get the one specimen they have in the showroom: it counts as used so that you get a few % off :)

Atm I have no pressing financial probs but I'm saving up for when I get pensioned off. And each month I put aside a small sum for the annual heating bill and a larger one for repairs (washing machines are outrageousely expensive!).
And by principle I never ever buy on credit or in installments or overdraw my account - the interest is waaaay too expensive.

But as my sis put it so perfectly: luxury is being able to go into a shop and simply buy whatever I'd like to eat [without having to look at the price tag]. And that's a luxury I occasionally indulge in :drool:
 
Speaking of luxury.....at 35 years old I just now own my first expensive designer item ever. For my birthday my parents got me a Michael Kors purse. I love it so much but could never bring myself to spend that much money on a purse.
 
Considering Prince Charles and the Queen, never carry money, never draw their own bathwater or set their shower and do not even put toothpaste on their toothbrush, or make their own bed or even dress themselves, I doubt anyone on this forum lives like a King for even a second! ;)
Royalty live like infantile adults
 
Considering Prince Charles and the Queen, never carry money, never draw their own bathwater or set their shower and do not even put toothpaste on their toothbrush, or make their own bed or even dress themselves, I doubt anyone on this forum lives like a King for even a second! ;)
Royalty live like infantile adults

LMAO, I didn't mean it quite so literally.
 
LMAO, I didn't mean it quite so literally.
I know....:hugegrin:
I live by the maxim 'you can't take it with you' I bet King Tut would have spent all that gold if he knew grave robbers were going to steal his stuff lol
However I believe in the saying 'I've been poor and I've been rich. And believe me, rich is better'
At the moment with a mortgage, no matter what I earn, I work solely for the bank.
 
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From observation, many, if not most, wealthy people that I've met are tightwads. Pecuniary caution gets to be habitual - much like being a spendthrift. I've only met millionaires though. Perhaps billionaires are less frugal.

^^^^this.

While we are not millionaires by any means, my husband and I both come from families with a lot of money that includes several millionaires. The one thing they all have in common is that they are frugal and live below their means. They wanted to set up systems of sustainable income rather than big spending. Investments were king. We were both taught from an early age that living below your means was a key to long term financial success. So, we do and we make really smart financial decisions and have things set up so that we will be very financially secure when we retire. We decided that the one thing that we wanted to splurge on was family trips since we have children. Other than that, we rarely eat out, get our clothes at Old Navy, have mid range cars, are not shoppers, live in a very modest house, etc. It is just a habit now.

Sometimes I do envy those who live more in the moment and spend what they have. There is probably a nice happy medium, but I think I would be too tempted if I strayed from my course.
 
I agree with this. My parents make a LOT of money and are very frugal. They have nice cars and go on expensive vacations. But they shop with coupons, rarely go out to dinner at expensive places and generally save money however they can.

I've seen how much they have in savings and 401k and it made my jaw drop.
 
True. - For me I meant the phase were redundancies weren't happening on a yearly basis at our office.
That phase started for me in 2007, still waiting for it to end. Been whacked with the redundancy stick thrice myself.

My job security is sure footed as a mountain goat, to paraphrase the Simpson’s.
 
How true is is that 'old money' (inherited wealth from many generations) are frugal and watch every penny but new money (self made from sports and entertainment industry) do not? (With business people being somewhere in the middle)
 
True. - For me I meant the phase were redundancies weren't happening on a yearly basis at our office.

We used to be every year like clockwork, but over the last number of years we seem to get to play the Downsizing Lottery every 12 to 24 months.
 
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