As a gay man I always found Beverly's speech very odd at the end of The Host. I don't see where Bev rejected Odan because of any personal shortcomings. If she's straight then she's not going to be attracted to Odan's new female host. That's not something she has to apologize for. I think the writers meant well, but they kind of fumbled the ending there.
It gets even messier when they completely changed the way Trill joining works on DS9, although one of the novels - the DS9 Trill novella I think - established Odan came from a Trill colony mutated by the Klingon DNA virus or whatever, so maybe their joining worked differently as well as their physical mutation.
I know that Odan goes thru some big changes in a DS9/TNG comic crossover, but I don't believe much or anything has been done with Odan in the novels, which is a bit of a shame because I think Odan is interesting even in his/her own right.
It gets even messier when they completely changed the way Trill joining works on DS9, although one of the novels - the DS9 Trill novella I think - established Odan came from a Trill colony mutated by the Klingon DNA virus or whatever, so maybe their joining worked differently as well as their physical mutation.
I know that Odan goes thru some big changes in a DS9/TNG comic crossover, but I don't believe much or anything has been done with Odan in the novels, which is a bit of a shame because I think Odan is interesting even in his/her own right.