To say that just because the people involved are women, then there is no sexism involved is simplistic and unsurprisingly ignorant. To inventory the times Janeway has been in the books and say "that's more than enough" is simplistic and arrogant. Because sexism is genderless. A woman can be as sexist as much as a Black man can be racist. And that's because we still live in a mostly-White run, patriarchal society. Most women are brought up to believe that you can only have one or the other or are in positions where they have to compromise their beliefs to fit in a male culture. And male culture is dominant. There have been strides made in the past, but it's not perfect and won't be until men teach their own sons to share the burden of work and family equally without expecting women to give up one over the other.
If you don't give a crap about this argument, then just say so. It's disingenious to argue the merits when you don't care about the argument to begin with. Just as racism has changed over the fabric of time, so has sexism. It may not be as obvious or overt, but it's still there.
And here's the crux of what I think the Janewayphiles are getting at on this bbs. I have been on many message boards in my time. Say this is an XTC board. The band replaced a keyboardist and a drummer during their active years. If a faction of people decided to deride either member, it would disrupt the board. Because it is a community of people interested in all things XTC and since they are mindful of excluding any one group, they would have the decency to refrain from ad-hominem attacks on any particular band member.
This is a Star Trek bbs. It seems to me that this board is very exclusionary in that this thread does not so much debate Janeway's manner of dying (at least regarding the OP) than it is about telling Janeway fans to put up or shut up. But mainly to shut up. I have no problems with anyone who doesn't like Janeway. We all have our favorites. But to basically say "I don't care about your favorite character" is really pointless. And to be precious about your favorite authors but to deride someone's favorite character seems highly hypocritical and not in the interest of discussion but to quash any meaningful debate - unless it has to do with your specific agenda. I'm supposed to apologize because I brought up sexism as a possible factor in the decision to kill Janeway? Please. I know that nothing I say here influences anything the authors, editors, etc. do. But do I have a right to express an opinion along these lines? Apparently I do, because I haven't been thrown out of your bbs yet.
Look, by virtue of the fact that this is a Trek BBS, we are all nerds, geeks here. But it seems to me that within the geek herd, you have decided to pick on a minority that is even more marginalized than you are. I'm not saying that everyone in this thread is doing that, but the OP opened it with that sentiment.
If you don't give a crap about this argument, then just say so. It's disingenious to argue the merits when you don't care about the argument to begin with. Just as racism has changed over the fabric of time, so has sexism. It may not be as obvious or overt, but it's still there.
And here's the crux of what I think the Janewayphiles are getting at on this bbs. I have been on many message boards in my time. Say this is an XTC board. The band replaced a keyboardist and a drummer during their active years. If a faction of people decided to deride either member, it would disrupt the board. Because it is a community of people interested in all things XTC and since they are mindful of excluding any one group, they would have the decency to refrain from ad-hominem attacks on any particular band member.
This is a Star Trek bbs. It seems to me that this board is very exclusionary in that this thread does not so much debate Janeway's manner of dying (at least regarding the OP) than it is about telling Janeway fans to put up or shut up. But mainly to shut up. I have no problems with anyone who doesn't like Janeway. We all have our favorites. But to basically say "I don't care about your favorite character" is really pointless. And to be precious about your favorite authors but to deride someone's favorite character seems highly hypocritical and not in the interest of discussion but to quash any meaningful debate - unless it has to do with your specific agenda. I'm supposed to apologize because I brought up sexism as a possible factor in the decision to kill Janeway? Please. I know that nothing I say here influences anything the authors, editors, etc. do. But do I have a right to express an opinion along these lines? Apparently I do, because I haven't been thrown out of your bbs yet.
Look, by virtue of the fact that this is a Trek BBS, we are all nerds, geeks here. But it seems to me that within the geek herd, you have decided to pick on a minority that is even more marginalized than you are. I'm not saying that everyone in this thread is doing that, but the OP opened it with that sentiment.