So am I. You are aware that the Klingon designs, the bridge design and interface, and the secret sibling stuff are all public knowledge, right? So I'm not complaining about things I haven't seen. I'm not shouting this sucks, I'm saying these things concern me. I don't need to see an episode to know that the Klingon design bothers me. I don't need to see an episode to know the bridge design bothers me. I don't need to see an episode to know that a secret sibling bothers me. When I start bitching about the plot of the pilot episode before it's aired, then it will be complaining about something I haven't seen yet. Again, it's not either or. It's not unconditional love or infinite bashing. You can criticize something and still like it. You can dislike some part of a thing but still enjoy the whole. I think you might be taking things too personally. A few criticisms of the show don't reflect poorly on you. Nor should they threaten your enjoyment or your fandom.