Humans do not live in cartoons, so their live action entertainment--more often than not--is designed to have relatable settings, situations or character behavior enough to sell.
I don’t know about you, but the answer to the question “Can or can’t I relate to that character?” hardly has anything to do with the style, these characters adventures are presented in. I can relate to Mitsuhiko Tsuburaya from the Detective Conan Manga – always wanting to be the smart guy, trying to use big words. And if one ever felt love, one can relate to Ryoga Hibiki, who fell in love with Akane Tendo, but is always out of reach, because she sees you just as her pet or friend – anyone, who ever was friendzoned can relate to that.
There's a reason Captain America: The Winter Soldier is the MCU's far-and-away best film: its messages of fighting against government corruption, terror cell infiltration, planned assassination, etc. resonated with an audience where most of those subjects have parallels in the real world. The film is the MCU's best for that reason: its not vomiting cartoonish insanity all over the story to the point the human actors end up being mere cartoon characters catapulted from one explosion-laden scene to another.
People saw “The Winter Soldier” as the best MCU-Movie? Really? Funny, I definitely remember, people telling me “Eh… it’s an okay film. It doesn’t feel like a Marvel-Movie, it’s more like a spy-film, more like “Die drei Tage des Condors”.
It is quite a ridiculous reaction for some to mount the argument that superhero films must be as unrealistic as possible, as if audiences never expect familiar social, cultural or occasionally ideological references and settings. Even the comic book sources rejected that notion generations ago, because their readers no longer found superheroes being pranked by sidekicks and/or aliens, or never facing serious consequences worth their interest and money. The comic industry changed to relfect a more realistic setting even with the fantasy framing, which was readers wanted to see. One gets a greater sense of danger when the setting mirrors real life, rather than a cartoonish realm.
Yeah, that was the silver-age, right? Or was it the bronze one? Hardly the golden-age, where the more ridiculous situations were more prone of happening. And concerning “what the readers wanted to see” I have my own little theory. See – I hold the view, that the comic book reader sometimes has a fear – he fears, that people, who know him, see him either going to comic-book-movies or buying a comic.
So, their first line of defence is “That’s not a comic, that’s a graphic novel”. Or take the Nolan Batman movies, which are – if you ask me – completely overrated, ‘cause they’re trying to be realistic. So, the comic-fans can lean back, say “See, it’s an age old question, do the ends justify the means, what makes a human human and are these superheroes seen as gods among us?” – when in the end, it’s a dude with a mask, kicking some clowns ass or another dude using heat-vision to do something good.
You know, when
I see a movie like ZSJL, coming to the same conclusions, as the Whedon Cut did, where Bruce bought the farm, so that Ma Kent can live there, I see a problem. To me, the problem is: When a movie is taking itself super-realistic, I tend to do the same. If in the Whedon-Cut Clark is back from the dead, I’m like “yeah, okay.”
But if in the Snyder-Cut the same thing happens, I’m like “Wait a second. Are these the same people of Smallville, Pa Kent made a big problem out of in Man of Steel? The same persons, that caused Pa Kent to go up to teenage Clark and say “You helped again?” and which caused him to utter the absolutely moronic “M… maybe” answer to Clarks question “What was I supposed to do? Let them die?”
If the people of Smallville were in a way, that caused Jonathan Kent to say “Maybe”, then Clark, who is back from the dead (and remember: Clark was buried. There was a coffin, there was a wake, they put him in the ground), would cause the Townfolk to panic. They should be running around with these little protest-signs, which would be saying, that the end is nigh, since the dead walk among us.
But they don’t do that, right? Or is there a missing scene? If not, then Pa Kents reaction was over the top and Ma Kent should’ve said “Jonathan, are you nuts? Of course he’s not letting them die – but he should wear a costume.”