The very concept of “civil unions” didn't even exist until the late 1980s.
Correct me if I'm wrong but Star Trek has never (non-ambiguously) shown a civil union. People are single, casually co-habitat or are married. Again, no civil unions. Even after the late 1980's.
Yes. I was talking about civil unions in the real world, not
Star Trek.
Hey guys, maybe I'm nuts here, but I believe my husband and I had a civil union, and we married in 1982 and they had been around for quite a long time. We called it a civil ceremony in those days because the marriage was performed by a civil authority and not a minister of any religion (in our case, a justice of the peace). In the case at hand, the starship captain would be the civil authority just like supposedly maritime ship captains had the authority to marry people. I imagine the term civil union came into use for gay marriages because these were marriages that were going to take place before civil authorities because religious authorities were refusing to do the ceremonies.
Maybe we're arguing semantics. There's civil
marriage, as distinct from a marriage performed by religious authorities. Civil
unions, on the other hand, are a recent concept that was first given official recognition in Denmark in 1989.
Civil Union -- Wikipedia
I'm far from convinced that Kirk's ship wasn't designed for children. For his first televised mission, Kirk was about to leave the galaxy - a trip that would later be established as standing no chance of reaching any interesting targets until several years, decades, perhaps centuries, into the mission.
In the second pilot, “Where No Man Has Gone Before,” the
Enterprise was about to venture beyond the galactic rim* to find out what happened to the S.S.
Valiant, which had disappeared 200 years earlier. There was no intent of an extended mission beyond our own galaxy. Such a mission would be quite beyond the capacity of a TOS-era starship.
EDIT: Or, what
Warped9 said.
The bit about only married women being allowed to carry sounds a bit out of place in Trek. Because the subject would never be allowed to arise in TOS, we don't have to pretend that 2260s people would have the same hang-ups about it as the 1960s ones, since evidence does not and cannot exist either way. And ENT would seem to establish that the world didn't get stuck in 1960s thinking, but proceeded through our late 20th and early 21st century morals before reaching the TOS era. So it would take extra effort to think that the 2260s suddenly went uptight again, against the flow.
Well, of course, when
Trek TOS was made, no one could have predicted the changes in social and sexual mores that would occur in the next few decades: the increasing acceptance of relationships not blessed by church or state, the loss of the stigma associated with unmarried women having babies, the acceptance of gay relationships and so on. It's like pretending there were female starship captains in the TOS era, even though we never saw any.
*As David Gerrold remarked in
The World of Star Trek, the idea of a definable “edge” to the galaxy is like “trying to bisect a sneeze.”
OK, FIRST since it seems a lot of people are getting hung up on my choice to use the words “civil union” (why? is this a negative term I'm not aware of?) I used that term because of its neutrality. If they were getting married then they were getting married, it just didn't seem like an overly religious affair anyway.
I don't think anyone sees “civil union” as a negative term -- just an anachronism. For the 1960s when the show was made, that is -- not necessarily in-universe.
it also seems like a sexist notion (understandable given the show's time period of the 60's) that the woman would either get a medical discharge or have to be transferred to a starbase. A medical discharge makes it sound like a negative thing to have children.
Getting pregnant most definitely
is a negative thing for active-duty military personnel, who have to be available to do their jobs whenever and wherever they're called to do them.